"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Answer This Question Then, Please
- Thread starter HUFFY
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wtf dude, I thought this was some real ****.
So conclusions:
1. According to you guys on this site, there's no real strategy for getting girls, Chosen1 says just go up and have fun and talk. What bull****?
2. Now, since you guys sum up that's there no real strategy for getting girls, then WHY DO YOU LOG IN HERE EVERYDAY?
To have a discussion?
omg, get me out of this forum right now.
THERE ARE NO PUAS ON THIS FORUM....
REPEAT....
THERE ARE NO PUAS ON THIS FORUM
Last Man Standing
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and no, I would not consider myself a PUA. I'm a rAFC.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
I never said I say what I think I know. I say what I know what I've been through and sometimes what I think. Secondly this site has everything you need to succeed (suck seed, oh). The DJ Bible has great info and exercises. Also you can ask questions. If you want you can pay out 1500 dollars for a bootcamp. Or you can hunker down ask questions and keep cool. This is the last time I'm going to say this. There is know secret to getting women no tricks. There I said it.HUFFY said:What kind of site is this?
So according to Chosen1, all you guys do is come here and talk about what the **** you think and know?
What in the blue ****? I thought this site was where guys came and they knew how to pull women.
From the responses, all of you guys are basically saying you don't know ****. Well then...if you don't know ****, then how the hell Chosen1 can you guys come and talk about what you THINK AND KNOW if you don't know anything?
Can someone please direct me to a site where I can learn more about picking up women please?
I forgot the name of what you guys would be called, I think it's Keyboard Players or something? But I don't have time for that **** I have a life.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Who the **** knows how to get some women on this site? If you know, let me know or direct me to a site that does.
Damn, somebody on this site has to know something. And Last Man Standing I bet you are probably an old, piece of crap, who sits around the computer all day just typing up your bull**** theories on women.
How the hell can you type up so much **** about women when a girl hasn't touched your penis since 1995? Loser, why don't you turn off your computer?
The title of this forum is the, "Secrets To Meeting, Dating, and Attracting Women." What the hell are you talking about that their are no secrets?
Then how do YOU get women then? THAT is what I want to discuss, that is what I want to know. I want to up my game, I read that Bible ****, it's just filled with dumb ass threads about being a challenge or some other ****.
I want to learn and discuss getting *****, let's go!!!
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
I bet you are to dense to even realize why there is no startegy to picking up women. The reason is because there are to many variables. Everything plays a part in your getting laid or not. How you dress your race your height your smile or lack there of. There is just to much. Even mystery could lay every women in the world because of guess what. Variables, I guess you can change those stupid things but if you want some statergy here's some:HUFFY said:omg obsidian, so what are you so ****y because you "belong" around here or something?
wtf dude, I thought this was some real ****.
So conclusions:
1. According to you guys on this site, there's no real strategy for getting girls, Chosen1 says just go up and have fun and talk. What bull****?
2. Now, since you guys sum up that's there no real strategy for getting girls, then WHY DO YOU LOG IN HERE EVERYDAY?
To have a discussion?
omg, get me out of this forum right now.
THERE ARE NO PUAS ON THIS FORUM....
REPEAT....
THERE ARE NO PUAS ON THIS FORUM
1. look people in the eyes (duh) 2. Approach and smile (duh duh) 3. Look presentable 4. Smell good 5. Say at least an hello 6. Get the female comfortable around you 7. When you've built attraction and rapport make her feel like she won't see you ever again. 8. Get phone number. 9. Whatever.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
From your post here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=114599&highlight=chosen1
It's obvious that you are not. You said right there that you don't have any skills.
I want some PUAs to start talking. I don't want to talk to somebody who doesn't know ****. Why do you even post threads dude? Trying to pretend that you are somebody that you are not, dude this is an internet discussion forum, nobody gives a **** about your sorry ass.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
Did you even read that. I never said I have a problem get laid in that. I said I have a problem remembering my goals. That is not the same. Now if you want to find proof that I don't get laid go back farther. anybody that reads that knows that sometimes you forget things you wanted to do or promised yourself. I did say I spank my monkey to much but I have a job now and things I have to worry about man. What really pisses me off is that this is not proof, I hate being lied on get a life.HUFFY said:Yeah Chosen1 I guess you're so hot right?
From your post here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=114599&highlight=chosen1
It's obvious that you are not. You said right there that you don't have any skills.
I want some PUAs to start talking. I don't want to talk to somebody who doesn't know ****. Why do you even post threads dude? Trying to pretend that you are somebody that you are not, dude this is an internet discussion forum, nobody gives a **** about your sorry ass.