I'm reading an Abraham-Hicks book at the moment and came across a few sentences that many here will know as oneitis and why it's a big turn off for women.
Turn it around and see it from a womans point of view.
Turn it around and see it from a womans point of view.
Abraham-Hicks said:No one else needs you to be or do things for them in order for them to be fulfilled - for all of them have the same access of well-being that you do. Often, others (who do not understand that they have access to the (well-being) stream) suffer in their inability to hold themselves in a place of feeling good, and ask you to behave in a way that they believe will make them feel better. But not only do they hold you in a place of discomfort as they make you responsible for their joy, they hold you in a place of bondage as well. For they cannot control the way any other behaves, and if that control is necessary for their happiness, they truly are in trouble.