"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Another thread with pictures...

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Yeah, it's been a while since I last posted a thread with pictures in it. Yeah, I've been lazy. No, I haven't quit... I've become accustomed to things and stopped bringing out my camera.

Anyway, some of you may remember Yupine...

http://www.jbspencer.com/jeryup.jpg

Not all of you may have seen her like so...

http://www.jbspencer.com/yupine1.jpg
http://www.jbspencer.com/yupine2.jpg

Yes, there are others. No, I won't post them now... better to have something to look forward to.

And yes, there's a video in the works of me and Holly (not Yup)... as soon as I can convince her that if it's okay for me to take pictures of her while we're at it, it's okay to record it too... :p

Yes, my English is fragmented tonight. No, I don't know why.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: Re: Another thread with pictures...

Originally posted by diablo
You should see the rest of my closet... :p
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well, start uploading the pics.. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Another thread with pictures...

Originally posted by diablo
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75736

Emphasis on 'closet1'.
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yeah doesn't really work for me..
need to see'em on..
i've got alot of clothes aswell...
so many t-shirts/polo's/shirts...
which i match with 4-5 pairs of jeans...

I saw a t-shirt yesterday I'm going to buy sometime next week it'll look great at a club..

its black, nice fit, with a picture of a cartoon dog on it.. its a cool looking dog, and just the lines, (ie; not coloured) but the lines are made in this shiny blue stuff.. so it'll light up nice at a club..
 
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classic diablo, she's freggin cute.

Yum.. makes me want to step my game up.

Good stuff.
 
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She's alright D;nothing major, nice lips though. What ever happened to the Goth Girl with the killer eyes?
 
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really cute girl, diablo!


p.s.: everytime you post a pic of you smiling, you always look as drunk as it can be:)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What ever happened to the Goth Girl with the killer eyes?
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She's around, but apparently has a drug problem... nothing I want to get too close to.
Originally posted by BMW
where/how did you meet?
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A bar...
Originally posted by Jay-X
you always look as drunk as it can be:)
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Usually with good reason.
Originally posted by bbestar
*BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP*
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Who are you again? :rolleyes:
 
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You look more asian than she does ya drunken bastard

Well done D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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reminds me of that asian chick on the real world, i think her name was jaimie.
 
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man d u making me wanna get on a asian chick man!
 
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