"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Another thread with pictures...

diablo

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Yeah, it's been a while since I last posted a thread with pictures in it. Yeah, I've been lazy. No, I haven't quit... I've become accustomed to things and stopped bringing out my camera.

Anyway, some of you may remember Yupine...

http://www.jbspencer.com/jeryup.jpg

Not all of you may have seen her like so...

http://www.jbspencer.com/yupine1.jpg
http://www.jbspencer.com/yupine2.jpg

Yes, there are others. No, I won't post them now... better to have something to look forward to.

And yes, there's a video in the works of me and Holly (not Yup)... as soon as I can convince her that if it's okay for me to take pictures of her while we're at it, it's okay to record it too... :p

Yes, my English is fragmented tonight. No, I don't know why.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Re: Re: Re: Another thread with pictures...

Originally posted by diablo
You should see the rest of my closet... :p
well, start uploading the pics.. ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Another thread with pictures...

Originally posted by diablo
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75736

Emphasis on 'closet1'.
yeah doesn't really work for me..
need to see'em on..
i've got alot of clothes aswell...
so many t-shirts/polo's/shirts...
which i match with 4-5 pairs of jeans...

I saw a t-shirt yesterday I'm going to buy sometime next week it'll look great at a club..

its black, nice fit, with a picture of a cartoon dog on it.. its a cool looking dog, and just the lines, (ie; not coloured) but the lines are made in this shiny blue stuff.. so it'll light up nice at a club..
 

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classic diablo, she's freggin cute.

Yum.. makes me want to step my game up.

Good stuff.
 

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She's alright D;nothing major, nice lips though. What ever happened to the Goth Girl with the killer eyes?
 

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really cute girl, diablo!


p.s.: everytime you post a pic of you smiling, you always look as drunk as it can be:)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What ever happened to the Goth Girl with the killer eyes?
She's around, but apparently has a drug problem... nothing I want to get too close to.
Originally posted by BMW
where/how did you meet?
A bar...
Originally posted by Jay-X
you always look as drunk as it can be:)
Usually with good reason.
Originally posted by bbestar
*BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP*
Who are you again? :rolleyes:
 

thefonz

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You look more asian than she does ya drunken bastard

Well done D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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C00L

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reminds me of that asian chick on the real world, i think her name was jaimie.
 

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man d u making me wanna get on a asian chick man!
 
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