"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Another thread with pictures...

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Yeah, it's been a while since I last posted a thread with pictures in it. Yeah, I've been lazy. No, I haven't quit... I've become accustomed to things and stopped bringing out my camera.

Anyway, some of you may remember Yupine...

http://www.jbspencer.com/jeryup.jpg

Not all of you may have seen her like so...

http://www.jbspencer.com/yupine1.jpg
http://www.jbspencer.com/yupine2.jpg

Yes, there are others. No, I won't post them now... better to have something to look forward to.

And yes, there's a video in the works of me and Holly (not Yup)... as soon as I can convince her that if it's okay for me to take pictures of her while we're at it, it's okay to record it too... :p

Yes, my English is fragmented tonight. No, I don't know why.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Re: Re: Re: Another thread with pictures...

Originally posted by diablo
You should see the rest of my closet... :p
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well, start uploading the pics.. ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Another thread with pictures...

Originally posted by diablo
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75736

Emphasis on 'closet1'.
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yeah doesn't really work for me..
need to see'em on..
i've got alot of clothes aswell...
so many t-shirts/polo's/shirts...
which i match with 4-5 pairs of jeans...

I saw a t-shirt yesterday I'm going to buy sometime next week it'll look great at a club..

its black, nice fit, with a picture of a cartoon dog on it.. its a cool looking dog, and just the lines, (ie; not coloured) but the lines are made in this shiny blue stuff.. so it'll light up nice at a club..
 
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classic diablo, she's freggin cute.

Yum.. makes me want to step my game up.

Good stuff.
 
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She's alright D;nothing major, nice lips though. What ever happened to the Goth Girl with the killer eyes?
 
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really cute girl, diablo!


p.s.: everytime you post a pic of you smiling, you always look as drunk as it can be:)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What ever happened to the Goth Girl with the killer eyes?
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She's around, but apparently has a drug problem... nothing I want to get too close to.
Originally posted by BMW
where/how did you meet?
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A bar...
Originally posted by Jay-X
you always look as drunk as it can be:)
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Usually with good reason.
Originally posted by bbestar
*BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP*
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Who are you again? :rolleyes:
 
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You look more asian than she does ya drunken bastard

Well done D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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reminds me of that asian chick on the real world, i think her name was jaimie.
 
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man d u making me wanna get on a asian chick man!
 
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