"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i'm sorry, but today i'm really concerned about my shortness, so i want solace:D

i was wondering one thing:

my father is 5'9 and my mother is just 5'5. i'm the shortest child, although i'm the older one (i'm 18 years old and i'm 5'9 too)

my 17yr old brother is 6'0.
my 15yr old brother is 6'1 and reached this height when he was 14.

plus, my little brother became the tallest in his elementary school when he was 8 years old and he still is (he's in sixth grade now)

does anybody else experience this into his family? it's so strange to me and i wonder if i'm still going to grow.

what strikes me is that even my grand parents were short-average height and my relatives too (i just have ONE uncle out of 13 who's 6'3, the other ones are around 5'8), so i don't know how my brothers came to grow this tall.

any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I play Basketball too :cool:. I'm currently 19 (turning 20 in August) and standing @ 6'2. Hopefully I'll grow one or two more inches before 21 when you stop growing, for men. I don't know when women stop growing :p :D.
 

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Originally posted by white cloud 8
I play Basketball too :cool:. I'm currently 19 (turning 20 in August) and standing @ 6'2. Hopefully I'll grow one or two more inches before 21 when you stop growing, for men. I don't know when women stop growing :p :D.
i think men nowadays stop growing around 17, not 21 anymore, for they mature earlier
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The theory I always heard is that playing basketball makes you tall. Jumping stretches your leg muscles or something like that. You'd have to start from a young age though. So sorry.


Maybe growth shots?
 

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Originally posted by Bling
The theory I always heard is that playing basketball makes you tall. Jumping stretches your leg muscles or something like that. You'd have to start from a young age though. So sorry.


Maybe growth shots?
actually, all of my brothers has played basketball (and that tall uncle of mine too)... but so did I! why the hell were just they that enjoied the benefits?!?! plus the tallest one of my brothers stopped playing years ago, while i still play at least once a week...
 

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Spiking your hair, and having a built body makes you look tall. My cousin is 5'9", has a built body (mainly the chest has to be big) and my dad is 5'11", but I always think he's taller than my dad until I see them side to side.
 

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Originally posted by Bling
Spiking your hair, and having a built body makes you look tall. My cousin is 5'9", has a built body (mainly the chest has to be big) and my dad is 5'11", but I always think he's taller than my dad until I see them side to side.
i wouldn't be so sure. i know a guy who has got a handsome body and is really built. he's 5'11, but looks shorter, since he's got a really large upper body
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
(i'm 18 years old and i'm 5'9 too)
5'9 isnt short man.....

average is 5'8- 5'9.

I'm 5'10 right now, but im only 15.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This has been discussed several times before (as you noted in your thread title). There is no way for people on an internet message board to determine your genetic makeup. You could stay the same height or shoot up like a weed, we have no way of telling. All you can do is wait.
 
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