"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Another Stupid Prom Thread

Jerky Boi

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I didn't want to waste any space but this has really been bothering me the past couple of days while I've been trying to arrange plans for my Senior Prom this year. Alright, here's my situation:


I'm going to prom with my girlfriend Maureen. A couple of my buddies and I were going to pitch in some cash and rent a limo, pick up everyone's dates, make a few stops before hand, eat, and head out to prom. My friend Jared and I have looked everywhere and it seems most people are booked. I don't know where else I could possibly look or if for some reason I don't get a limo, what's another possible alternative other than my 86 ford t bird. :p I want it to be special (not saying having a limo will make it that way) but it wouldn't hurt at all. So, if any of you prom veterans have any suggestions on this lil transportation dilemma, all input is needed :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A fancy taxicab? You can have the fat guy dress in a suit and pretend it's a limo.
 

Jerky Boi

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Damn, not a bad idea at all :cool:


Haha, I'm not too much on a budget or anything. I mean, 3 of my 4 friends that are going have jobs and we can pay for it. I was kinda thinking of renting a decent size car for a day and driving out there.
 

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Well if there's no limoes what alternatives do you have?

Get the fat guy a nice bowtie, too.
 

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I really hate prom season....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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