"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Another Six Months... Are You With Me

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hey count me in too.

^ according to the first post on the original 6 months thread, I did masturbate, so I did lose. 44 days...damn...but hey, it's not really a problem as I don't really think about doing it any more.

For you guys who oppose the idea, think of it as a test of self-discipline. It does indeed make you stronger in the face of temptation. I just seriously don't see the point of it any more, besides as giving into my weakness. What's the benefit of it?

Count me in. I'll be starting today anyway. (although I'll be counting with you guys starting whenever you start).

btw bbestar, I noticed your in Richmond...you ever been to Charlottesville?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im in! ill start with you on june 4th
 

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4/183 :)
 

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chickenlegs03 said:
btw bbestar, I noticed your in Richmond...you ever been to Charlottesville?
Ive been there once for a field trip in middle school, mount vernon I believe. Other than that not really..

Im glad your on board Reiki

*updated list* as of the 31st

1. bbestar
2. Holland - Day 5 as of the 31st
3. three12
4. TheoTiger
5. Julian
6. spider_007 Day 2 as of the 31st
7. chickenlegs03
8. Reiki
9. Dante3214
10. SIV
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no it's day 5 on may 31, I live in Holland ;)
 

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longest I did was 5 weeks (several years ago) My boner wouldnt go away. And if it dropped, it was backup within 2 minutes.
 

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I'm in! Enough is enough, it's already been 6months since I saw the pendo thread and I'm still where I am, and the rest of 2006 is gonna fly by in the blink of an eye. No way am I gonna have to include no masturbating in my new year's resolution again, there are better things for me to conquer.


--1st June to 24th December--
Day 1/207

I can already see the day... Christmas Eve, finally a FREE man, broken off from this habit of the world because my Lord Jesus made the heaviest possible sacrifice to redeem me.

A time in many years, many years indeed when I can finally be free from this chain that is preventing me from being all that God made me to be, and also a renewed confidence and fruitfulness of my life.

Only 206 more days to go, Holy Spirit help me, guide me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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still looks so little, but so what. My record was 9 days and I'll be there in only 3 days en it's gonna go up from there.

I do hope I can find some sex on the way soon :p
 

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Upper said:
A time in many years, many years indeed when I can finally be free from this chain that is preventing me from being all that God made me to be, and also a renewed confidence and fruitfulness of my life.

Only 206 more days to go, Holy Spirit help me, guide me.
God Be With You Upper, the Lord Jesus Christ came down from heaven to give us Life More abundant.

That very same Lord Jesus Christ 2000 years ago, lives today and offers that new Life to anyone who is willing. That Life each and everyone of us has been looking for all our lives.

We will all run the race to WIN!

*updated list* as of June the 1st, 2006

1. bbestar
2. Holland -Day 6 as of the 1st
3. three12
4. TheoTiger
5. Julian
6. spider_007 -Day 4 as of the 1st
7. chickenlegs03
8. Reiki
9. Dante3214
10. SIV
11. Upper
12. Nethel - Day 4 as of the 1st
 
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I'm gonna make it. I know it!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not that I think this is a bad idea...but there is something kind of gay about a bunch of guys helping each other not jerk off.
 

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How Ironic, I lost it a few hours just after posting this

I'm gonna make it. I know it!
But I'll be honest, I watched some pictures of hot women, started with the intentions not to climax, but it came to close, and then I couldn't go back anymore :mad:

Fucck this ****, I'll stop touching it too now!

It was actually still 1-6 in Holland so it's like this:

1. bbestar
2. Holland -Day 1 as of the 2nd
3. three12
4. TheoTiger
5. Julian
6. spider_007 -Day 5 as of the 2nd
7. chickenlegs03
8. Reiki
9. Dante3214
10. SIV
11. Upper
12. Nethel - Day 5 as of the 2nd

To bad I blew my head start, but it's the way it is...
 

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it's been puirty hard yesturday, just to keep my self from waching porn i had to get out of the house.....i went to the gym (i figure i take my time and walk there) stoped buy the grosery store.....got home at 10:30 at night....went straight to bed. Even as i was walking i felt a boner coming on, good thing nobody was around:whistle:

I think that's my plan now, the more i stay out of the house, the more chance i have of making it.


Don Ronny said:
Not that I think this is a bad idea...but there is something kind of gay about a bunch of guys helping each other not jerk off.
if we all new each other in person, I HIGHLY DOUGHT THAT ANYBODY WOULD EVEN ADMIT THEY JERK OFF, but since this is the internat....
 

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Holland, and everyone else.

We all have to understand that we all want to feed our natural man, our natural lusts, and desires.

Through out the day, you are feeding something... Looking at hot girls lusting and desiring them, imagining the things you would do to that girl, watching a sensual commercial on TV, or a sensual looking girl at school, tv or at work.

You are feeding your desires, and if you feed it enough... It is Easy, Very easy to fall for false desires. The internet is another outlet for the Devil's lie that by searching for hours for the perfect picture or video, we will satisfy our lusts and desires... and never do it again..

The lie is the more you indulge yourself, the more you are trapped by it.

If you have tried everything else in the world to stop this addiction, and have failed... Why not consider the person and finished work of the Lord Jesus Christ.
 

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bbestar said:
We all have to understand that we all want to feed our natural man, our natural lusts, and desires.

Through out the day, you are feeding something... Looking at hot girls lusting and desiring them, imagining the things you would do to that girl, watching a sensual commercial on TV, or a sensual looking girl at school, tv or at work.

You are feeding your desires, and if you feed it enough... It is Easy, Very easy to fall for false desires. The internet is another outlet for the Devil's lie that by searching for hours for the perfect picture or video, we will satisfy our lusts and desires... and never do it again..

The lie is the more you indulge yourself, the more you are trapped by it.
though I didn't agree with the last part of your statement, the above portion was very well said :up:

on day 4 today
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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