“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Another Six Months... Are You With Me

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hey count me in too.

^ according to the first post on the original 6 months thread, I did masturbate, so I did lose. 44 days...damn...but hey, it's not really a problem as I don't really think about doing it any more.

For you guys who oppose the idea, think of it as a test of self-discipline. It does indeed make you stronger in the face of temptation. I just seriously don't see the point of it any more, besides as giving into my weakness. What's the benefit of it?

Count me in. I'll be starting today anyway. (although I'll be counting with you guys starting whenever you start).

btw bbestar, I noticed your in Richmond...you ever been to Charlottesville?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Im in! ill start with you on june 4th
 

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4/183 :)
 

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chickenlegs03 said:
btw bbestar, I noticed your in Richmond...you ever been to Charlottesville?
Ive been there once for a field trip in middle school, mount vernon I believe. Other than that not really..

Im glad your on board Reiki

*updated list* as of the 31st

1. bbestar
2. Holland - Day 5 as of the 31st
3. three12
4. TheoTiger
5. Julian
6. spider_007 Day 2 as of the 31st
7. chickenlegs03
8. Reiki
9. Dante3214
10. SIV
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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no it's day 5 on may 31, I live in Holland ;)
 

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longest I did was 5 weeks (several years ago) My boner wouldnt go away. And if it dropped, it was backup within 2 minutes.
 

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I'm in! Enough is enough, it's already been 6months since I saw the pendo thread and I'm still where I am, and the rest of 2006 is gonna fly by in the blink of an eye. No way am I gonna have to include no masturbating in my new year's resolution again, there are better things for me to conquer.


--1st June to 24th December--
Day 1/207

I can already see the day... Christmas Eve, finally a FREE man, broken off from this habit of the world because my Lord Jesus made the heaviest possible sacrifice to redeem me.

A time in many years, many years indeed when I can finally be free from this chain that is preventing me from being all that God made me to be, and also a renewed confidence and fruitfulness of my life.

Only 206 more days to go, Holy Spirit help me, guide me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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still looks so little, but so what. My record was 9 days and I'll be there in only 3 days en it's gonna go up from there.

I do hope I can find some sex on the way soon :p
 

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A time in many years, many years indeed when I can finally be free from this chain that is preventing me from being all that God made me to be, and also a renewed confidence and fruitfulness of my life.

Only 206 more days to go, Holy Spirit help me, guide me.
God Be With You Upper, the Lord Jesus Christ came down from heaven to give us Life More abundant.

That very same Lord Jesus Christ 2000 years ago, lives today and offers that new Life to anyone who is willing. That Life each and everyone of us has been looking for all our lives.

We will all run the race to WIN!

*updated list* as of June the 1st, 2006

1. bbestar
2. Holland -Day 6 as of the 1st
3. three12
4. TheoTiger
5. Julian
6. spider_007 -Day 4 as of the 1st
7. chickenlegs03
8. Reiki
9. Dante3214
10. SIV
11. Upper
12. Nethel - Day 4 as of the 1st
 
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I'm gonna make it. I know it!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not that I think this is a bad idea...but there is something kind of gay about a bunch of guys helping each other not jerk off.
 

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How Ironic, I lost it a few hours just after posting this

I'm gonna make it. I know it!
But I'll be honest, I watched some pictures of hot women, started with the intentions not to climax, but it came to close, and then I couldn't go back anymore :mad:

Fucck this ****, I'll stop touching it too now!

It was actually still 1-6 in Holland so it's like this:

1. bbestar
2. Holland -Day 1 as of the 2nd
3. three12
4. TheoTiger
5. Julian
6. spider_007 -Day 5 as of the 2nd
7. chickenlegs03
8. Reiki
9. Dante3214
10. SIV
11. Upper
12. Nethel - Day 5 as of the 2nd

To bad I blew my head start, but it's the way it is...
 

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it's been puirty hard yesturday, just to keep my self from waching porn i had to get out of the house.....i went to the gym (i figure i take my time and walk there) stoped buy the grosery store.....got home at 10:30 at night....went straight to bed. Even as i was walking i felt a boner coming on, good thing nobody was around:whistle:

I think that's my plan now, the more i stay out of the house, the more chance i have of making it.


Don Ronny said:
Not that I think this is a bad idea...but there is something kind of gay about a bunch of guys helping each other not jerk off.
if we all new each other in person, I HIGHLY DOUGHT THAT ANYBODY WOULD EVEN ADMIT THEY JERK OFF, but since this is the internat....
 

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Holland, and everyone else.

We all have to understand that we all want to feed our natural man, our natural lusts, and desires.

Through out the day, you are feeding something... Looking at hot girls lusting and desiring them, imagining the things you would do to that girl, watching a sensual commercial on TV, or a sensual looking girl at school, tv or at work.

You are feeding your desires, and if you feed it enough... It is Easy, Very easy to fall for false desires. The internet is another outlet for the Devil's lie that by searching for hours for the perfect picture or video, we will satisfy our lusts and desires... and never do it again..

The lie is the more you indulge yourself, the more you are trapped by it.

If you have tried everything else in the world to stop this addiction, and have failed... Why not consider the person and finished work of the Lord Jesus Christ.
 

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bbestar said:
We all have to understand that we all want to feed our natural man, our natural lusts, and desires.

Through out the day, you are feeding something... Looking at hot girls lusting and desiring them, imagining the things you would do to that girl, watching a sensual commercial on TV, or a sensual looking girl at school, tv or at work.

You are feeding your desires, and if you feed it enough... It is Easy, Very easy to fall for false desires. The internet is another outlet for the Devil's lie that by searching for hours for the perfect picture or video, we will satisfy our lusts and desires... and never do it again..

The lie is the more you indulge yourself, the more you are trapped by it.
though I didn't agree with the last part of your statement, the above portion was very well said :up:

on day 4 today
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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