"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Another "She has a BF" thread

Pimp-sicle

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Dood trust me, girls with BF's are good for one thing and one thing only:

-a quick fuvk!!!


Think about it. I don't care if your the biggest AFC on the planet or the biggest PIMP in the world!!! If she's willing to cheat on her bf with you. She'll EASILY be willing to cheat on you with the next flavor of the week.

Don't get one-itis, the symptoms are already showing.



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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Austin Allegro

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You have to ask yourself what you want from this woman.

Do you just want a quick lay? If so, she might give it up if you play your cards right.

But if you want a relationship - I'd say forget it.

Some women just love having a crowd of AFCs hanging around her to give attention. In all probability the BF is not giving her much attention - which is why she likes him.

Women with BFs who flirt with other men have the best of both worlds - they get a crowd of AFCs giving attention, drinks, lifts, making her laugh, keeping her company, but if it gets too serious, the BF shield can be flung up, and off she goes to get a good seeing to. I have seen this happen a lot at university with women who kept a steady BF back home but flirted chastely with men at uni.

I'd personally try to gain control of the situation and say 'I'd love to take you out tonight...it's such a shame you have a BF. Oh well, I've got a hot date with that chick from down the road so I'll see you later!'
 
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