"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Another Scars lay report.

Scars

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I know my lay reports suck sometimes because I often forget the context used, but to the noobies just notice how I dodge the anti-slut defense and also notice the value of persistence. That's about all I can say.

This girl was an acquaintance, I have seen her at another party before and made out with her but it never went further than that. So I was surprised when I ran into her. Obviously, I approached her as soon as I realized it was her, we made a little small talk. I broke into the kino right away, she had a different hair cut then last time and was looking good. I actually gave her a compliment. I felt I displayed a pretty strong frame last I saw her and also DHV'd myself enough to not let it be a problem. I invited her for a game of beer pong. Played with her a bit, bounced around between a few other girls just being social, I'd run into her every now and then and teased her a bit.

Then the time came. I saw her sitting on a couch by herself texting on her phone, so I plop right down next to her. After a little small talk I interrupt her mid sentence and start making out with her. We get into a heated make out session and I stop for a second and suggest we "go to her car", she shuts me out and says "no". So I start making out with her some more, hoping maybe I just need to get her juices flowing a little bit, so I start intensifying the kisses and my hands start wandering a lot. I am rubbing her all over and I stop and say the same thing. "Do you want to go to your car?" she say's "no, I'm not that kind of girl" I then say "I don't think you're that kind of girl at all. I just want to go somewhere private where we can talk." she then says "I don't believe you" so I say "Listen, we don't have to do anything, I just want to get away from this people." she thinks about it for a second and then grabs my hand and I follow her outside. We get to the car and without hesitation I say "We should go in the backseat" she makes a cute little laugh and we go into the backseat, and not even 30 seconds into being the car she is grabbing for my shirt and taking it off. We get back into the heavy making out and I take off her pants etc.. and I pounded that **** like no other.

I guess the key here is to not be afraid of escalation. I stress this a lot in many of my posts. Also, you cannot make the girl feel slutty. Most girls will put up some sort of defense and you have to dodge it some how.

-Scars
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nice man.

So after you got in the car, did you actually talk first? or went straight into making out? also if you guys went striahgt to making out, I am assuming you took the first step? Did you escalate from just making out or did she?
 

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Irs88 said:
nice man.

So after you got in the car, did you actually talk first? or went straight into making out? also if you guys went striahgt to making out, I am assuming you took the first step? Did you escalate from just making out or did she?
No talking at all actually. She knew what was up, I just had to be covert about my intentions. I started making out with her again and she took the initiative by taking off my shirt, then after that I pretty much did all the escalating.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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Very nicely played indeed. What I like about this field report is that it really presents an obstacle many men face and you clearly gotten over it. Other FR's are just there to brag about how they got the lay but yours was definitely worth reading and most of all, it was short but not too short and definitely well presented.
 
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