"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Another Scars lay report.

Scars

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I know my lay reports suck sometimes because I often forget the context used, but to the noobies just notice how I dodge the anti-slut defense and also notice the value of persistence. That's about all I can say.

This girl was an acquaintance, I have seen her at another party before and made out with her but it never went further than that. So I was surprised when I ran into her. Obviously, I approached her as soon as I realized it was her, we made a little small talk. I broke into the kino right away, she had a different hair cut then last time and was looking good. I actually gave her a compliment. I felt I displayed a pretty strong frame last I saw her and also DHV'd myself enough to not let it be a problem. I invited her for a game of beer pong. Played with her a bit, bounced around between a few other girls just being social, I'd run into her every now and then and teased her a bit.

Then the time came. I saw her sitting on a couch by herself texting on her phone, so I plop right down next to her. After a little small talk I interrupt her mid sentence and start making out with her. We get into a heated make out session and I stop for a second and suggest we "go to her car", she shuts me out and says "no". So I start making out with her some more, hoping maybe I just need to get her juices flowing a little bit, so I start intensifying the kisses and my hands start wandering a lot. I am rubbing her all over and I stop and say the same thing. "Do you want to go to your car?" she say's "no, I'm not that kind of girl" I then say "I don't think you're that kind of girl at all. I just want to go somewhere private where we can talk." she then says "I don't believe you" so I say "Listen, we don't have to do anything, I just want to get away from this people." she thinks about it for a second and then grabs my hand and I follow her outside. We get to the car and without hesitation I say "We should go in the backseat" she makes a cute little laugh and we go into the backseat, and not even 30 seconds into being the car she is grabbing for my shirt and taking it off. We get back into the heavy making out and I take off her pants etc.. and I pounded that **** like no other.

I guess the key here is to not be afraid of escalation. I stress this a lot in many of my posts. Also, you cannot make the girl feel slutty. Most girls will put up some sort of defense and you have to dodge it some how.

-Scars
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nice man.

So after you got in the car, did you actually talk first? or went straight into making out? also if you guys went striahgt to making out, I am assuming you took the first step? Did you escalate from just making out or did she?
 

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Irs88 said:
nice man.

So after you got in the car, did you actually talk first? or went straight into making out? also if you guys went striahgt to making out, I am assuming you took the first step? Did you escalate from just making out or did she?
No talking at all actually. She knew what was up, I just had to be covert about my intentions. I started making out with her again and she took the initiative by taking off my shirt, then after that I pretty much did all the escalating.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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War Against Betaism

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Very nicely played indeed. What I like about this field report is that it really presents an obstacle many men face and you clearly gotten over it. Other FR's are just there to brag about how they got the lay but yours was definitely worth reading and most of all, it was short but not too short and definitely well presented.
 
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