“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Another Random Thread About A Girl

ENIGMA16

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Went out with friends last night, met up with a group of girls that he was friends with. I was pretty drunk but I remember introducing myself and pointing to this one girl and being like "Oh I don't like her" just teasing her about some random thing. The entire night we were out she was trying to qualify to me, I didn't pay her much attention. We took a cab back to their place, she sat on my lap.

Got to her place and everyone went to bed except my friend and her (they're friends). I end up like laying with my head on her ass while we're hanging out. Didn't get the number because I honestly wasn't sure if there was something going on with my friend and this girl or what; I just didn't feel comfortable asking for it in front of him like that.

So we all end up going to bed. This isn't her house, I end up sleeping on a couch, as does my friend; she sleeps with her friend upstairs.

Figured what the hell, couldn't hurt to try, so I added her on Facebook because that was the only way I knew of contacting her. Talked with her for a little bit, teased her about a few things. While I was talking to her I was doing other ****, so eventually she was like "I'm going to bed you take too long to type byeee" or some ****. I called her a smartass right when she signed off.

Not sure how to play this one in the future, I was JUST about to ask for her number when she did that, so I don't know what to say to her next time or if I should even give her another chance.

Anyways, I don't need to hear about all the mistakes I made. I know that I should have gotten her number much earlier, and that I probably shouldn't have went over to their house considering the outcome. I know that getting a number over FB is stupid, but I figured it couldn't hurt, worst case scenario is that she turns me down. I guess I don't know what I'm supposed to even say to her if I try for it again, considering how the convo ended recently.

This girl seems cool but the end of that convo kind of put me off, I don't even know if it's worth it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ARrocket

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Don't get so down on yourself. And don't try to scheme over Facebook. Not necessary.

Your friend is her friend. Friends hang out. Is the puzzle coming together? :p

Find out from your friend if your light is green or not, and if it is, make sure you two end up at the same place again. This time, get the number.

Boom. Back to learning about oligopolies and sh!t now :mad:
 

ENIGMA16

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Hah ****ed it up by going for the number over FB chat without developing repoire and reestablishing attraction. Got scared then got reckless, learned that I have to develop and establish attraction before going the number and also, most importantly, to act while there's still an opening.

Don't let desperation consume you, just go for it ASAP because before you know it you're consumed with desperation and that window closed!
 
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