"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Another Protein Question

HandyAndy

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I was at my local drug store picking up some muscle milk, the employee there told me to take it when I wake up, and after my workouts, becuase if i take it before my workouts, im feeding body and it wont burn the stored fat, but nutrients i just put in, he said if i take it when i wake up ill refuel my body from the previous workout and the supplement would be out of my body within 4 hours, leaving my muscles hungry for more until the next time i would feed them, being after my workout, is he correct?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quiksilver

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Pretty much, yes. He sounds like he knows his ABCs.

Muscle milk = sugar. The two times in the day when sugar is generally okay to have is first thing in the morning, and right after a work out. At both of these times, your muscles and body is starved for energy, and a fast acting carb(sugar) will be absorbed by the body instead of stored as fat.

If you take it pre workout, then you're giving your body the energy it needs to get through that workout without digging into fat stores for energy. It's not that big a deal, but the two optimal times are at breakfast and post workout.

cheers
 

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I never really liked muscle milk, but that's just me. A lot of calories and stuff that isn't neccesary.. a good powder has just as much protein and aminos with less calories.

Then again if you're really game on gaining weight, go ahead.

As for taking a protein shake before the gym.. I don't know about that. I've never really heard anyone recommend this for "energy". If anything, you want to take aminos before work out. Check out "Xtend" by scivation.
 

I-tallionStallion

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Yes take a shake before you workout. And why not just get whey? its a hella a lot cheaper. And then you can mix your own ingredients in it and create a freakin awesome caloric shake.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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