"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Another Protein Question

HandyAndy

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I was at my local drug store picking up some muscle milk, the employee there told me to take it when I wake up, and after my workouts, becuase if i take it before my workouts, im feeding body and it wont burn the stored fat, but nutrients i just put in, he said if i take it when i wake up ill refuel my body from the previous workout and the supplement would be out of my body within 4 hours, leaving my muscles hungry for more until the next time i would feed them, being after my workout, is he correct?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quiksilver

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Pretty much, yes. He sounds like he knows his ABCs.

Muscle milk = sugar. The two times in the day when sugar is generally okay to have is first thing in the morning, and right after a work out. At both of these times, your muscles and body is starved for energy, and a fast acting carb(sugar) will be absorbed by the body instead of stored as fat.

If you take it pre workout, then you're giving your body the energy it needs to get through that workout without digging into fat stores for energy. It's not that big a deal, but the two optimal times are at breakfast and post workout.

cheers
 

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I never really liked muscle milk, but that's just me. A lot of calories and stuff that isn't neccesary.. a good powder has just as much protein and aminos with less calories.

Then again if you're really game on gaining weight, go ahead.

As for taking a protein shake before the gym.. I don't know about that. I've never really heard anyone recommend this for "energy". If anything, you want to take aminos before work out. Check out "Xtend" by scivation.
 

I-tallionStallion

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Yes take a shake before you workout. And why not just get whey? its a hella a lot cheaper. And then you can mix your own ingredients in it and create a freakin awesome caloric shake.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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