Another Prom Thread...

[TheHumanist]

Yes, I'm making another thread about prom again. This have to kill some respect or at least some of my pride...

Ok, it is now May 6th and Prom is June 1st. Now if anyone read my earlier prom thread (and another related to a ballroom dancing incident), I once had a date and she left me. Since then... I have not had much luck getting a new date. All the seniors to my knowledge in my school have a date even by the time she left me. Whoever thought they should put prom night the night before the SATs should be punched for that made my ability to get a Junior infinately harder (I know, some juniors would still go to prom anyways, the girls I know are the type that prioritize school very highly and so far have not been able to overcome that). I know a few girls outside of school, I have already asked all of them and said know for various reasons.

I was able to get one yes from all the girls I asked, a girl who I hold no attraction for, barely any rapport, seems to be very low on funds, and show no enthusiam to prom. When I asked her if she able to pay for her part for the limo... she told me she have no ability at all (when I asked her how would be pay for her dress, she told me she is going to go through a program that gives out old dresses). Following standard courtesy, I would pay for her ticket anyway, but now I have to pay for her part of her limo? Sounds pretty crappy deal to especially to this girl.

I guess I better get to the point, wtf should I do. I only have a few weeks left, I pretty much asked every girl I know decently, should I just go in a group/stag, not go at all, go with the girl that will cost me far much then I think she is worth, or some other option?

 

[Kev07]

i say go stag or group, have you tried girls from outside of school? ask some of your girl friends if they have any friends interested in going

 

[TheHumanist]

Like I said, I already asked all the girls I know outside the school. I guess I'm going stag/group. Though it is a bit depressing, while I know everyone already had dates by the time I started looking again and the SATs thing is making all the juniors I know (most I know really takes school seriously) unable to go with me, I thought I would be able to find someone else who wants (and could, though theoretically a girl could go despite of SATs, it takes alot for a girl to take prom with me over resting for a test that play a large factor to her college future, hmm... putting it in that light, it would too selfish too...) to go with me.

 

[Touchout]

Following standard courtesy, I would pay for her ticket anyway, but now I have to pay for her part of her limo?

Your taking a girl whose not going to your prom...it's pretty much standard courtesy to pay for her limo too...after all it's not her prom.

Sounds pretty crappy deal to especially to this girl.

That changes things, if she's not worth it don't take her

I only have a few weeks left, I pretty much asked every girl I know decently, should I just go in a group/stag, not go at all, go with the girl that will cost me far much then I think she is worth, or some other option?[/QUOTE]

Go stag if you want, but definitely go. A couple of my friends are going stag, it's actually not a bad deal, you have freedom people who go with dates don't.

 

[phatboi408]

Im going stag. My prom is next week may 19 in san jose. It is kinda awkward to go alone, but there will be people there without dates too. Dont feel to bad.

 

[The Shocker]

Why do you have prom on a friday?

 

[Mjazz]

Guys I need some serious help, Prom is in one week is that enough time to ask? I have a girl in mind, she likes me and I like her, I was gonna ask her yesterday but pussied out so bad, im still pissed at myself, I need to ask her tommorow, give me some motivation or something guys, I dont know why but Im just too nervous to ask even though Im almost sure she will say yes

 

[Touchout]

No, that's not at all enough time, however if she is going anyway you can ask her. Or, if your too afraid to do that just tell her you'll talk to her at prom, then you can make your move from there.

 

[Mjazz]

shes already taken, great move by me, I have learned my lesson to not ****ing hesitate anymore. Im not going to prom