ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Mastery begins with self-mastery.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Another perspectgive on LTRs
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
the most striking thing when you are dumped, is, when you step out of her chaos (read: go back to your frame, where you were too when u met) when you entered after her break-ip. That moment you become often attractive again for her. Not this should be an option to go back cause unclear things in her frame are mostly never resolved like 1-2-3. Even maybe never. Good chance. The reason here is often due her own insecureness.
So, stay always in your frame. Quite easy actually what you have to do.
So, not sure a woman, or anyone else, should make your order. Never.
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ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
You said a woman tries to make order out of your chaos.
You should not be in a chaotic state, like a ball in a pinball machine. Your instinctual desire should be subordinated to your rational desire [will]. You will then make the best decisions regarding woman.
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ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
I think 'Gaming' ourselves is an art in the sense that we make ourselves.
And when we make ourselves, we have some idea/ ideal in mind toward which we build from the existing reality of our lives.
We may disagree what the 'Good Life' actually is, but everyone interested in self-development agrees that the 'Good Life' is something worth striving for.
Anyway, I am not so sure that I am necessarily striving for an LLTR because I think there are greater goals than chasing after women, or should I say a woman. Or perhaps it is one goal among many, and then a subordinate one.
BUT in so far as I do think of relationships, I tend to value the LLTR more because this kind of relationship is simply easier, and more supportive, where I can continue in my manly mission in life without having women constantly on my mind. : )
Perhaps if I am a better man, I might even attract a quality woman into my life. How would an LLTR even be possible without a genuine appreciation of each-other.
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