another one.....oneitis broke up

[AFK Protector]

my oneitis just broke up with her bf. I think she did it...not sure. but their spark just disapperaed. I'm so damn confused...i dunno what to do.

he's an acquaintnace....friend i guess...but nothing close.

my mind tells me to stay on track and leave it alone.

my heart tells me to go for it and not let this one slip away again.

my friends on sosuave haven't spoken yet.

background:

they been togeterh for like...1.5 years. she's asian, he's white. she's more studious, but has the looks too. he's a slacker....but is charming i guess. he turned major afc after hooking up. flowers...etc. he was just crying to me a few min ago, and I just feel so damn torn. I think i'm gonna go with my mind..cuz my heart has ****ed me over in the past.....

what do you think?

 

[shagnscoob]

1.5 years is a long time, especially if your thinking of getting with her right away, not to mention, no offense to you, but it seems really unlikely that shed get into another relationship so soon, unless she broke it off for someone else in particular....

maybe you guys could hook up and stuff but i wouldnt look for a relationship =/

 

[AFK Protector]

I used to be a major AFC man....but now I've like changed 1000X for the better.

anyways, she always initiates convos with me in class and such and even when I'm not interested she keeps persisting. I don't want to get ****y and think she broke it off for me, but I guessI 'll find out soon. I'm not going to go for it immediately out of respect for the other guy though.

just gonna let her know i'm interested.

the other day we had this convo:

(keep in mind she's .5 yrs younger and her BF is a senior)

me: hey you going to homecoming?
her: nah...probably not...
me: why not?
her: eh...i don't feel like it. are you going?
me: well, no. I'm not much of a dance person so I'm going to follow the crowd and just go..
her: that's cool. how about prom?
me: maybe...
her: OMG! HOW CAN YOU NOT GO TO PROM?
me: well, I was thinking about how people couldn't like me and I couldn't come up with an answer either...
her: haha. you're so full of it. hey...what if I asked you to prom huh?
me: hmm...I'd have to deny you the night of your life.
her: haha, why not?
me: you have a bf and I have to respect that.
her: oh...yeah...that's true..

then we're just silent until we walk to the train and the whole ride home.

yep...I remember our convos. call it AFC. I call it good memory.

 

[AFK Protector]

help me out here people....heart or mind. i can't trust myself in times like this.

 

[jakeyboy]

heart. but wiat dont profess your undying love for her yet..

say "hey i jsut remembered what you said about prom the other day... f*ck it, lets go together!"

come on... oneitis is never cured until you at least have a shot at the girl... she seems relatively interested in you. sometimes friends just gotta take a backseat. plus, you aint all that close to him either right. welll? go for it mate. all the best

 

[AFK Protector]

Hey guys,

Thanks a lot for your comments. And you too Tyte. lol. I'm going to go for it in a week or two. She's going to spend a lot of time with me now, but I gotta keep the distance too.

 

[AFK Protector]

I changed my mind. I'm not gonna go for it. I think about how me going out with her will f-ck up a lot of things, so I decided to stayoutta it.

this is also a shameless bump. give me your advice people....you ask AND give advice here....now just the former.