"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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unorthodox

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I added bunch of *****es and some of them turning out to be lesbians, here is my chat today with one of them, HB8.


SHE POSTS A BULLETIN: Get to work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:D ....Luv ya's
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I respond now.


ME: Hmmm, I see. Another woman excided about finally figuring out how to change batteries?
HER: huh??? Lol...ya lost me
ME: You said you got it to work!
HER: Lmao....ok ok . I gotcha now. I wish that was what I was referring to :)
ME: Yea me too, I'd help you out with it....... AFTER I find out more about you of course.
HER: Well...first of all...Im a lesbian. So Id prefer the help of someone alittle different than you. However..I still appreciate the concern ; ) lol
ME: You profile sux, It doesn't say you're a lesbian!! Plus you look kinda bi to me. Am I right?
HER: You are wrong
ME: whatever, you look kinda sexy to me
HER: Whatever. Thanks....kinda :)
ME: What's your name?
HER: KRISTEN
ME: I'm XXXX. Nice to meet you.
thanks for replying thinking Im hot
Where you from?
HER: Your overly ****y. I happen to like that in a person :) Nice to meet you too. Im from Sebring.
ME: Sebring Florida?
HER: YUP
ME: NICE!! I like their raceway.. What do you do for fun?

Read but haven't replied, I wait half an hour or so.

ME: Aw, lesbian desided to hurt a man... NOT. Do u hate men?
HER: LMFAO...Im not one of those man-haters. The Sebring races are off the chain...lots of fun. Ive only lived here for bout 2 years now...only been to them once. But damn ....you have an attitude on you, eh??? Lol :)
ME: women say I'm sweet. I like all women, white, latino, black, lesbian. :) I treat them all the same, if they qualify to be with me.. WHAT DO U DO FOR FUN?



She still have to read that last one. AND that what's up!
:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I like that
 

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unorthodox said:
I added bunch of *****es and some of them turning out to be lesbians, here is my chat today with one of them, HB8.
Doesn't it say in the 'orientation' box or whatever if they're straight/gay/bi/whatever?
 

unorthodox

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Yea, lol.... Well with this one I got a nice friend!!!

I don't add people anymore by the way. I just talk to a chick, if she's nice I add her, but I make it a challenge for her. If she's a weirdo I experiment some things on her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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