LeftyLoosey
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Another manifestation of the anti-slut defence?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TheBucketOfTruth
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Not ASD, more like girls not wanting to blame things on themselves for drinking too much and so it must have been some evil man that slipped something into their drink.
Nutz
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I think blame shifting, and the underlying roots of what causes ASD are still related. Overall though the article seems correct. I've read similar studies in the US and blaming roofies or whatnot is just a copout for bad decision making and binge drinking.TheBucketOfTruth said:
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Hey, didja hear? They just came out with a new drug like viagra for women.
It's called Tequila.
It's called Tequila.