LeftyLoosey
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Another manifestation of the anti-slut defence?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TheBucketOfTruth
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Not ASD, more like girls not wanting to blame things on themselves for drinking too much and so it must have been some evil man that slipped something into their drink.
Nutz
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I think blame shifting, and the underlying roots of what causes ASD are still related. Overall though the article seems correct. I've read similar studies in the US and blaming roofies or whatnot is just a copout for bad decision making and binge drinking.TheBucketOfTruth said:
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Hey, didja hear? They just came out with a new drug like viagra for women.
It's called Tequila.
It's called Tequila.