LeftyLoosey
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Another manifestation of the anti-slut defence?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
Not ASD, more like girls not wanting to blame things on themselves for drinking too much and so it must have been some evil man that slipped something into their drink.
Nutz
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I think blame shifting, and the underlying roots of what causes ASD are still related. Overall though the article seems correct. I've read similar studies in the US and blaming roofies or whatnot is just a copout for bad decision making and binge drinking.TheBucketOfTruth said:
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Hey, didja hear? They just came out with a new drug like viagra for women.
It's called Tequila.
It's called Tequila.