"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Another major epiphany (Supplication vs Being genuine)

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When I was starting out, taking in all the theories. I vowed not "supplicate", a girl asked me to help her on her h/w and I turned her down. Even though, I could have helped her, I'm a smart guy.

A few days, a girl asked me to help her on her h/w. I don't know why, but I went for it. I guess, right now I don't see that as "supplication." I haven't really thought about "supplication" or anything. I just aim to inspire people, and leave a lasting impression on people I meet. Thats pretty much what I wanted to share.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Evolution said:
When I was starting out, taking in all the theories. I vowed not "supplicate", a girl asked me to help her on her h/w and I turned her down. Even though, I could have helped her, I'm a smart guy.

A few days, a girl asked me to help her on her h/w. I don't know why, but I went for it. I guess, right now I don't see that as "supplication." I haven't really thought about "supplication" or anything. I just aim to inspire people, and leave a lasting impression on people I meet. Thats pretty much what I wanted to share.
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What was it that made you turn down the first and not the second?
 
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ARrocket said:
What was it that made you turn down the first and not the second?
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It was because I thought the first (helping people was supplication), and the second , I come from a different mindset now. I don't care about supplication, I don't even know what that is anymore. I come from a place of authenticity, the part of me that wants to inspire and help people. I also think its because I moved past the game, I want more genuine relationships, I don't want to look at a girl and think "oh, am I suppose to do C&F? Am I supplicating?" No, I want to see people for who they really are.
 
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