Another major epiphany (Supplication vs Being genuine)

[Evolution]

When I was starting out, taking in all the theories. I vowed not "supplicate", a girl asked me to help her on her h/w and I turned her down. Even though, I could have helped her, I'm a smart guy.

A few days, a girl asked me to help her on her h/w. I don't know why, but I went for it. I guess, right now I don't see that as "supplication." I haven't really thought about "supplication" or anything. I just aim to inspire people, and leave a lasting impression on people I meet. Thats pretty much what I wanted to share.

 

[ARrocket]

When I was starting out, taking in all the theories. I vowed not "supplicate", a girl asked me to help her on her h/w and I turned her down. Even though, I could have helped her, I'm a smart guy.

A few days, a girl asked me to help her on her h/w. I don't know why, but I went for it. I guess, right now I don't see that as "supplication." I haven't really thought about "supplication" or anything. I just aim to inspire people, and leave a lasting impression on people I meet. Thats pretty much what I wanted to share.

What was it that made you turn down the first and not the second?

 

[Evolution]

What was it that made you turn down the first and not the second?

It was because I thought the first (helping people was supplication), and the second , I come from a different mindset now. I don't care about supplication, I don't even know what that is anymore. I come from a place of authenticity, the part of me that wants to inspire and help people. I also think its because I moved past the game, I want more genuine relationships, I don't want to look at a girl and think "oh, am I suppose to do C&F? Am I supplicating?" No, I want to see people for who they really are.