“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lil Magic

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I don't know how it is in the U.S., but here in the Bahamas, being really dark is pretty detrimental to your chances with girls. Im really dark, because I play so much sports in addition to the fact that I had really bad acne (I still have it, but not as bad). I don't like to complain but it would be nice to be the one the girls look at for once because of my looks. Anyone knows any way of getting rid of acne AND lighten skin (without bleach cream).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jeffthechef

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i use this cheap 1.50 cleasing gel thing...i got it at walmart hehe
i'm sure you can find something like that

as for whitening...i really wouldn't suggest changing yourself so drastically
i'm sure you can find a girl who likes darker skin...just work on qualities that you lack or could use improvement
 

Groovy

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you mean you have dark skin and you DON'T like it?!?! ahaha, come on man, dark skin totally ROCKS. A lot of people would die to have darker skin. Here in portugal people spend days in the summer just in the beach for having a darker skin. So I'm not sure what your problem is... Learn to like it! (Not sure if ~I read your post right tho). People have WAY WAY worse problems, don't mind! (If this post doesn't help you.... I hope you can get your skin whitening)
 

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Here in America all girls and some guys try hard to have darker skin, most of the time by just laying down in the sun.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Triple T

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intrextrovert said:
Here in America all girls and some guys try hard to have darker skin, most of the time by just laying down in the sun.
Tanner skin looks more healthy.
To humans, this means a healthier partner and is more attractive for mating purposes. (healthy offspring!)
But of course a person's tastes varies from one to another, but thats the majority.

Anyways, I wouldn't bother changing something like your skin color! Who the hell cares, its not all about appearence. ANd you should be proud of your color!
Spend time on your game instead and those girls won't be able to resist you! :up:

As for acne, go to the Health&Fitness part of this website.
Theres a thread there in "The Vault" that addresses treating acne.
Check it out!
 

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Lil Magic said:
I think you guys misunderstood. I'm black, and the same color as Akon.
...your point?
Why would you want to change your skin color JUST FOR GIRLS...makes no sense to me. :down:

Even if you do change your skin color, do you think girls would come running towards you because you have a lighter shade!?
No! Its all about your personallity ( for the most part)
 

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To get rid of the acne take really hot showers, this will open up your poors so the dirt can come out more easily. Also, use a towel in the shower to scrub (this seems obvious but I know a lot of guys that just use their hands.) These two things have kept my acne barely noticeable, I really don't have any acne. Oh yea use anti-bacterial soap.
 
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