"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lil Magic

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I don't know how it is in the U.S., but here in the Bahamas, being really dark is pretty detrimental to your chances with girls. Im really dark, because I play so much sports in addition to the fact that I had really bad acne (I still have it, but not as bad). I don't like to complain but it would be nice to be the one the girls look at for once because of my looks. Anyone knows any way of getting rid of acne AND lighten skin (without bleach cream).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jeffthechef

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i use this cheap 1.50 cleasing gel thing...i got it at walmart hehe
i'm sure you can find something like that

as for whitening...i really wouldn't suggest changing yourself so drastically
i'm sure you can find a girl who likes darker skin...just work on qualities that you lack or could use improvement
 

Groovy

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you mean you have dark skin and you DON'T like it?!?! ahaha, come on man, dark skin totally ROCKS. A lot of people would die to have darker skin. Here in portugal people spend days in the summer just in the beach for having a darker skin. So I'm not sure what your problem is... Learn to like it! (Not sure if ~I read your post right tho). People have WAY WAY worse problems, don't mind! (If this post doesn't help you.... I hope you can get your skin whitening)
 

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Here in America all girls and some guys try hard to have darker skin, most of the time by just laying down in the sun.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Triple T

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intrextrovert said:
Here in America all girls and some guys try hard to have darker skin, most of the time by just laying down in the sun.
Tanner skin looks more healthy.
To humans, this means a healthier partner and is more attractive for mating purposes. (healthy offspring!)
But of course a person's tastes varies from one to another, but thats the majority.

Anyways, I wouldn't bother changing something like your skin color! Who the hell cares, its not all about appearence. ANd you should be proud of your color!
Spend time on your game instead and those girls won't be able to resist you! :up:

As for acne, go to the Health&Fitness part of this website.
Theres a thread there in "The Vault" that addresses treating acne.
Check it out!
 

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Lil Magic said:
I think you guys misunderstood. I'm black, and the same color as Akon.
...your point?
Why would you want to change your skin color JUST FOR GIRLS...makes no sense to me. :down:

Even if you do change your skin color, do you think girls would come running towards you because you have a lighter shade!?
No! Its all about your personallity ( for the most part)
 

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To get rid of the acne take really hot showers, this will open up your poors so the dirt can come out more easily. Also, use a towel in the shower to scrub (this seems obvious but I know a lot of guys that just use their hands.) These two things have kept my acne barely noticeable, I really don't have any acne. Oh yea use anti-bacterial soap.
 
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