"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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another lesson learned--worth the read!

HeartlessBtch

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Originally posted by madgame
Good to know, that there are millions of you stupid *****es out there?:D
:kick: when I said many I meant women...not btches
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tristan!!! Call her back.

There may have been a good reason or maybe she WAS playing games.

Don't quit because you don't want to be "officially" rejected.

Go the whole damn way and call this girl again.
 

snintel

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Why the hell didnt you just call her back when it dropped? Do you have to overanalyze everything?
 

madgame

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Why the hell didnt you just call her back when it dropped? Do you have to overanalyze everything?
you just said exactly what I was thinking (for the 100th time or so). I would love to open a new thread for this and put it in the tips section, but I'm not in it for the fame ;-) so I'll just put it here:

"Soak up all of the good advice you can find here, but don't overanalyze everything"
 

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Originally posted by madgame
you just said exactly what I was thinking (for the 100th time or so). I would love to open a new thread for this and put it in the tips section, but I'm not in it for the fame ;-) so I'll just put it here:

"Soak up all of the good advice you can find here, but don't overanalyze everything"
I'd go as far as to say "Dont overanalyze ANYTHING"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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