“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HeartlessBtch

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Originally posted by madgame
Good to know, that there are millions of you stupid *****es out there?:D
:kick: when I said many I meant women...not btches
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tristan!!! Call her back.

There may have been a good reason or maybe she WAS playing games.

Don't quit because you don't want to be "officially" rejected.

Go the whole damn way and call this girl again.
 

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Why the hell didnt you just call her back when it dropped? Do you have to overanalyze everything?
 

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Why the hell didnt you just call her back when it dropped? Do you have to overanalyze everything?
you just said exactly what I was thinking (for the 100th time or so). I would love to open a new thread for this and put it in the tips section, but I'm not in it for the fame ;-) so I'll just put it here:

"Soak up all of the good advice you can find here, but don't overanalyze everything"
 

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Originally posted by madgame
you just said exactly what I was thinking (for the 100th time or so). I would love to open a new thread for this and put it in the tips section, but I'm not in it for the fame ;-) so I'll just put it here:

"Soak up all of the good advice you can find here, but don't overanalyze everything"
I'd go as far as to say "Dont overanalyze ANYTHING"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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