"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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another lesson learned--worth the read!

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Originally posted by madgame
Good to know, that there are millions of you stupid *****es out there?:D
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:kick: when I said many I meant women...not btches
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tristan!!! Call her back.

There may have been a good reason or maybe she WAS playing games.

Don't quit because you don't want to be "officially" rejected.

Go the whole damn way and call this girl again.
 
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snintel

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Why the hell didnt you just call her back when it dropped? Do you have to overanalyze everything?
 
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Why the hell didnt you just call her back when it dropped? Do you have to overanalyze everything?
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you just said exactly what I was thinking (for the 100th time or so). I would love to open a new thread for this and put it in the tips section, but I'm not in it for the fame ;-) so I'll just put it here:

"Soak up all of the good advice you can find here, but don't overanalyze everything"
 
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Originally posted by madgame
you just said exactly what I was thinking (for the 100th time or so). I would love to open a new thread for this and put it in the tips section, but I'm not in it for the fame ;-) so I'll just put it here:

"Soak up all of the good advice you can find here, but don't overanalyze everything"
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I'd go as far as to say "Dont overanalyze ANYTHING"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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