"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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another journal...ZERO to HERO hopefully

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ohhhhh just thought of something!
ok so my good friend has a gf, and she has ALOT of hot single friends...how would you go about at becomeing closer with the gf as to get squeeze into her social circle...like she knows about me, but she doesnt know me soo...like idk...she sees me around and stuff but i dont really talk to her or anything..i can see that if i become friends with her it would open up alot of opportunities!

as most of you know in high school most people stay in their social circles..how would you go about into joining a new one, now that i think about it i have no idea how i got into mine haha
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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3/3/11

today was decent..was playing around with this girl i met at school today...well we have the same class for the whole year but i never actually talked to her, today i was bored and approached her (shes about high 7 low 8ish) and it went smoothly...other than that just ran my dog, workout...overate when i got home cuz i was hungry haha annnndd thats about it,
 

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Im kinda trying the same thing with a chick. I think you should go about it just like if you liked her, then fix a meetup, but it can be with several people. Eventually hang out more. You can also be the bridge between her social circle and your circle.
 

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spring break is in 2 weeks! WHOOO!!!!!
imma go get laid at my gf's house than hit the mall like every day and practice my cold approaches!
first part sounds more fun though haha

i hit 178.9 this morning so imma start bulking back up to 190ish which is always fun (well the eating part is)
 

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very good chance i will have sex on Saturday...any tips on how to get a girl "in the mood?"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Spring break sucked major ass....it was heavy downfall the whole time so I was stck in my house babysitting lil bro....the whole week I sarged one chick "at a Costco lol" and I got her number, buttt due to my dad taking my phone is completely useless...
I miss HBtia who was the girl I lost my vcard to, we are a "open relationship" and I'm fine with that....
Read "the game" by Neil Strauss, which was a book that depicted the history of how the "pickup society started"
Tyler Durden was in it and I was like "woah! I know this guy!"
Wasn't about technique or anything (had a few tips) but was a great read
I wanna get into that NLP stuff (neurolinguistic programming) sounds like some crazy stuff..
 

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You gotta elaborate on why springbreak failed, its most likely because you didn't take action to be social etc.
Well, if you are into hypnotyzing women to go into bed with you because you're not good enough, then be my guest.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
You gotta elaborate on why springbreak failed, its most likely because you didn't take action to be social etc.
Well, if you are into hypnotyzing women to go into bed with you because you're not good enough, then be my guest.
I was stuck inside the house babysitting lil bro
And is NLP really a form of hypnosis?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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