"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

another journal...ZERO to HERO hopefully

dhizzyballuh

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
80
Reaction score
0
ohhhhh just thought of something!
ok so my good friend has a gf, and she has ALOT of hot single friends...how would you go about at becomeing closer with the gf as to get squeeze into her social circle...like she knows about me, but she doesnt know me soo...like idk...she sees me around and stuff but i dont really talk to her or anything..i can see that if i become friends with her it would open up alot of opportunities!

as most of you know in high school most people stay in their social circles..how would you go about into joining a new one, now that i think about it i have no idea how i got into mine haha
 
Last edited:

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

dhizzyballuh

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
80
Reaction score
0
3/3/11

today was decent..was playing around with this girl i met at school today...well we have the same class for the whole year but i never actually talked to her, today i was bored and approached her (shes about high 7 low 8ish) and it went smoothly...other than that just ran my dog, workout...overate when i got home cuz i was hungry haha annnndd thats about it,
 

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
Im kinda trying the same thing with a chick. I think you should go about it just like if you liked her, then fix a meetup, but it can be with several people. Eventually hang out more. You can also be the bridge between her social circle and your circle.
 

dhizzyballuh

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
80
Reaction score
0
spring break is in 2 weeks! WHOOO!!!!!
imma go get laid at my gf's house than hit the mall like every day and practice my cold approaches!
first part sounds more fun though haha

i hit 178.9 this morning so imma start bulking back up to 190ish which is always fun (well the eating part is)
 

dhizzyballuh

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
80
Reaction score
0
very good chance i will have sex on Saturday...any tips on how to get a girl "in the mood?"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

dhizzyballuh

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
80
Reaction score
0
Spring break sucked major ass....it was heavy downfall the whole time so I was stck in my house babysitting lil bro....the whole week I sarged one chick "at a Costco lol" and I got her number, buttt due to my dad taking my phone is completely useless...
I miss HBtia who was the girl I lost my vcard to, we are a "open relationship" and I'm fine with that....
Read "the game" by Neil Strauss, which was a book that depicted the history of how the "pickup society started"
Tyler Durden was in it and I was like "woah! I know this guy!"
Wasn't about technique or anything (had a few tips) but was a great read
I wanna get into that NLP stuff (neurolinguistic programming) sounds like some crazy stuff..
 

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
You gotta elaborate on why springbreak failed, its most likely because you didn't take action to be social etc.
Well, if you are into hypnotyzing women to go into bed with you because you're not good enough, then be my guest.
 

dhizzyballuh

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
80
Reaction score
0
NorwegianDJ said:
You gotta elaborate on why springbreak failed, its most likely because you didn't take action to be social etc.
Well, if you are into hypnotyzing women to go into bed with you because you're not good enough, then be my guest.
I was stuck inside the house babysitting lil bro
And is NLP really a form of hypnosis?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top