“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well, After going through a lot of these improvement topics, that have been created recently, I have decided to make my own. I would like to make some changes and improvements while I am still “young”.

Basic info;
18 Yrs. 5’8’’, 165Lbs. – Attending science college, which equals ZERO girls (1 girl every 100th student :D haha)
I am the guy with the brown hair :p btw.

Since discovering the PUA/DJ-community (3months ago) I already fell I have improved a lot, but there is still a lot of work to do! I would like to improve on a lot of points; Looks, body language, posture, inner game, speech etc.

But this topic is primarily, about improvements on my looks.


Thanks in advance :)

EDIT; I am the guy with the brown hair :p btw.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you dont look 165 lbs, Id put you closers to 150?

good looking young man, do a bit more gym work and add a little more bulk/definition, a little work on the hair (maybe a little longer/unkempt type of thing) little designer stubble and your there reckon
 

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betheman said:
you dont look 165 lbs, Id put you closers to 150?

good looking young man, do a bit more gym work and add a little more bulk/definition, a little work on the hair (maybe a little longer/unkempt type of thing) little designer stubble and your there reckon
Thank you for the Tips, very much Appreciated!

But yeah, i am 165lbs (or 75 kg), i have a "solid" build. You would see if i posted a picture showing my body from the side :D
 

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looks like you got the advice to hold your beer at your side when you stand up. i'd skip the necklace, but that's a personal opinion.

looks good though.
 

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What is it you guys have against necklaces? There was talk against necklaces in another similar thread.

I don't wear one myself because I hate the feel of having unnecessary things on. But I didn't know they were considered a woman repellent. I've never heard that before. You'd think it might make a good peacock item if it was an unusual charm or something.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zekko said:
What is it you guys have against necklaces? There was talk against necklaces in another similar thread.

I don't wear one myself because I hate the feel of having unnecessary things on. But I didn't know they were considered a woman repellent. I've never heard that before. You'd think it might make a good peacock item if it was an unusual charm or something.
Well it is not Unusual, but it look like a flame, but is a Lionstale. Girls tend to notice it, and then the talk goes on about Astronomy, starts and stuff like that :)

But i could remove it :)
 

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And lose the douchy clothes, holy fvck are you kidding me?
 

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And lose the douchy clothes, holy fvck are you kidding me?

I think the server is fvcked because I only hit "submit" once...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You sure don't look "European". You look Anglo. Everything is in English. Don't tell me that you are a Brit. A Brit is NOT European! A Brit is an American trapped on an island. Seriously, none of this applies to Continental Europe. NONE OF THIS.

At 18 years of age you are screwed in the real Europe unless you are loaded or can kick a soccer ball. Girls that age like MUCH MUCH MUCH older men in the real Europe. Just go to any higher end disco or bar at night. It is a different culture.
 

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BigJimbo said:
You sure don't look "European". You look Anglo. Everything is in English. Don't tell me that you are a Brit. A Brit is NOT European! A Brit is an American trapped on an island. Seriously, none of this applies to Continental Europe. NONE OF THIS.

At 18 years of age you are screwed in the real Europe unless you are loaded or can kick a soccer ball. Girls that age like MUCH MUCH MUCH older men in the real Europe. Just go to any higher end disco or bar at night. It is a different culture.
I am european, just from the south :)

- But yeah, i made a topic a month ago, about my age being my biggest ****block .. All the girls want elder men :( ! ..

But i am Racing, a lot of girls like that, second dates on the race track are awsome..
 

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Girls like that ................. wtf

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I am european, just from the south :)

But i am Racing, a lot of girls like that, second dates on the race track are awsome..

"girls like that" WTF

you are letting women to define your life,

find a passion in life because is your hobbie not because "girls like that"

**** that ****

go a read the bible man
 

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JEFE said:
"girls like that" WTF

you are letting women to define your life,

find a passion in life because is your hobbie not because "girls like that"

**** that ****

go a read the bible man
I am not sure you got it..

Racing is not only my passion, it is my life.. So invite girls over to the race track, to watch me pratice, and after the practice, we go for a soda (Using their wallet as payment).

So no, i would NEVER let girl define my life, girls are not that big a thing in my life, getting laid is though.
 

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well I hope that I missunderstand you the last time but

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girls are not that big a thing in my life, getting laid is though.
if getting laid is such a big thing in your life then you are **** up because you are outcome dependent.

getting laid has not to be a big thing in your life.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Honestly, atm. it is a BIG thing in my life. Why?
Well, after a 2 yr LTR, where i was getting laid 5 times a week, then all the suddently getting laid once every 2nd week, is horrible hehe.

So honestly, Getting laid is my priority nr. 2 atm!
 

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well I hope you don´t get needy for that reason

or you`re going to get less *****.
 
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