"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Another Improvement topic - Yes! Pictures as well

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Well, After going through a lot of these improvement topics, that have been created recently, I have decided to make my own. I would like to make some changes and improvements while I am still “young”.

Basic info;
18 Yrs. 5’8’’, 165Lbs. – Attending science college, which equals ZERO girls (1 girl every 100th student :D haha)
I am the guy with the brown hair :p btw.

Since discovering the PUA/DJ-community (3months ago) I already fell I have improved a lot, but there is still a lot of work to do! I would like to improve on a lot of points; Looks, body language, posture, inner game, speech etc.

But this topic is primarily, about improvements on my looks.


Thanks in advance :)

EDIT; I am the guy with the brown hair :p btw.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you dont look 165 lbs, Id put you closers to 150?

good looking young man, do a bit more gym work and add a little more bulk/definition, a little work on the hair (maybe a little longer/unkempt type of thing) little designer stubble and your there reckon
 

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betheman said:
you dont look 165 lbs, Id put you closers to 150?

good looking young man, do a bit more gym work and add a little more bulk/definition, a little work on the hair (maybe a little longer/unkempt type of thing) little designer stubble and your there reckon
Thank you for the Tips, very much Appreciated!

But yeah, i am 165lbs (or 75 kg), i have a "solid" build. You would see if i posted a picture showing my body from the side :D
 

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looks like you got the advice to hold your beer at your side when you stand up. i'd skip the necklace, but that's a personal opinion.

looks good though.
 

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What is it you guys have against necklaces? There was talk against necklaces in another similar thread.

I don't wear one myself because I hate the feel of having unnecessary things on. But I didn't know they were considered a woman repellent. I've never heard that before. You'd think it might make a good peacock item if it was an unusual charm or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zekko said:
What is it you guys have against necklaces? There was talk against necklaces in another similar thread.

I don't wear one myself because I hate the feel of having unnecessary things on. But I didn't know they were considered a woman repellent. I've never heard that before. You'd think it might make a good peacock item if it was an unusual charm or something.
Well it is not Unusual, but it look like a flame, but is a Lionstale. Girls tend to notice it, and then the talk goes on about Astronomy, starts and stuff like that :)

But i could remove it :)
 

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And lose the douchy clothes, holy fvck are you kidding me?
 

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And lose the douchy clothes, holy fvck are you kidding me?

I think the server is fvcked because I only hit "submit" once...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You sure don't look "European". You look Anglo. Everything is in English. Don't tell me that you are a Brit. A Brit is NOT European! A Brit is an American trapped on an island. Seriously, none of this applies to Continental Europe. NONE OF THIS.

At 18 years of age you are screwed in the real Europe unless you are loaded or can kick a soccer ball. Girls that age like MUCH MUCH MUCH older men in the real Europe. Just go to any higher end disco or bar at night. It is a different culture.
 

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BigJimbo said:
You sure don't look "European". You look Anglo. Everything is in English. Don't tell me that you are a Brit. A Brit is NOT European! A Brit is an American trapped on an island. Seriously, none of this applies to Continental Europe. NONE OF THIS.

At 18 years of age you are screwed in the real Europe unless you are loaded or can kick a soccer ball. Girls that age like MUCH MUCH MUCH older men in the real Europe. Just go to any higher end disco or bar at night. It is a different culture.
I am european, just from the south :)

- But yeah, i made a topic a month ago, about my age being my biggest ****block .. All the girls want elder men :( ! ..

But i am Racing, a lot of girls like that, second dates on the race track are awsome..
 

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Girls like that ................. wtf

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I am european, just from the south :)

But i am Racing, a lot of girls like that, second dates on the race track are awsome..

"girls like that" WTF

you are letting women to define your life,

find a passion in life because is your hobbie not because "girls like that"

**** that ****

go a read the bible man
 

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JEFE said:
"girls like that" WTF

you are letting women to define your life,

find a passion in life because is your hobbie not because "girls like that"

**** that ****

go a read the bible man
I am not sure you got it..

Racing is not only my passion, it is my life.. So invite girls over to the race track, to watch me pratice, and after the practice, we go for a soda (Using their wallet as payment).

So no, i would NEVER let girl define my life, girls are not that big a thing in my life, getting laid is though.
 

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well I hope that I missunderstand you the last time but

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girls are not that big a thing in my life, getting laid is though.
if getting laid is such a big thing in your life then you are **** up because you are outcome dependent.

getting laid has not to be a big thing in your life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Honestly, atm. it is a BIG thing in my life. Why?
Well, after a 2 yr LTR, where i was getting laid 5 times a week, then all the suddently getting laid once every 2nd week, is horrible hehe.

So honestly, Getting laid is my priority nr. 2 atm!
 

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well I hope you don´t get needy for that reason

or you`re going to get less *****.
 
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