ignoring girls really does work, i'm a firm believer of that now!!! even the time that people say it will take for them to contact you after no contact is accurate(2-3 weeks). this girl i told you about awhile back that i couldnt figure out and i was sure she had low IL, so i deleted her off of facebook, erased her number, the whole shibang basically. i was done, over it, see ya later pretty much. never told her what i did or why i did it or where i went, just rode off in the sunset oneday. well i figure this chick has alot of guy friends so if i go missing she wont suspect a thing. 2-3 weeks go by and i get a text from a number i dont recognize today saying "hope youre doing well!". i honestly didnt know who it was so i replied back with "you too, whos number is this btw?" and she replies back "Courtni!". right then i knew that when she had to explain to me who she was she knew she had been forgotten and the desperate girl to get me back in her life came out in her.haha now dont get me wrong, i still have alot of work to do, this is still a trap. i could easily fall right back to where i was before and this whole thing will be for not if i do that. i still have to act like i dont care that she contacted me, and im going to follow what Igetit said in a thread to a t! no mention of a date, no mention of hanging out, nothing like that. in fact, i just ignored her 3rd text after she told me who it was when i asked. she's since sent me 2 after that saying "are you mad at me?" and "why won't you talk to me?"haha anyone got any tips on if i'm doing this right so far or the next steps i need to take?