"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Y'all are probably sick of me making threads about Instagram. However, I'm relatively new to it. Anway, I'll make this as short as possible.

The question is: Does a girl following you back on Instagram mean anything? She is an acquaintance who I go to college with I've seen a few times but never officially met that I can recall. She is good friends with another chick who I know. Sent her a follow for the heck of it and was a little surprised she followed me back since she has well over a thousand followers and I have like 100. I'm assuming it doesn't mean much and she just wants more likes on her pics but IDK. Should I DM her now or is that too thirsty? Ordinarily I wouldn't think much of this but she is very VERY hot
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Assume attraction, always. I don’t have Instagram but it’s better to act from a frame of power than not.
 
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backseatjuan said:
Niet. People follow other people in order to get followers. She probably went on her friend's page and followed everyone. That's how they become popular on IG.
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She didn't do that though. I randomly requested to follow her private page and she followed me back.
 
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Look at her following to followers ratio. If it's about even then she usually follows everyone back. If she has way more followers then people she follows then she probably recognized you, or could be attracted
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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17 shots said:
Look at her following to followers ratio. If it's about even then she usually follows everyone back. If she has way more followers then people she follows then she probably recognized you, or could be attracted
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She has a few hundred more followers than people she follows. Fairly sure she recognizes me hell I've sat at the same table with her several times
 
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who knows bro. only one way to find out. shoot your shot and see if you she responds to your game. right now what u need to do is post a story on your IG of you doing something cool, like flexing in your luxury vehicle speeding through the skyline with some bad ass trap music blasting, or being in some calm surroundings with a pretty sunset or a picture of food at a nice restaurant etc. show her some of your clout. then see if she watches your story. if she does, then you go on her page and LIKE her most recent picture. if she has a story then watch it. but dont respond to it or anything yet.

then you man up and slide in her DM and say hey whats good thanks for the followback...hey btw you down to grab some tacos w me?"

Just be direct no BS be confident. Her answer will determine her interest level. you didnt mention a time or place you just asked her a general question. this is good because she may not see or respond to your msg fast enough and u dont want to say tonight because she will blow you off. her correct response for you to move forward is if she writes back "when?" BOOM your in. simple as that.
 
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Means nothing.

I consider that maybe 10% interest. Nothing more.
Those odds are so low, I wouldn't even bother with it unless she gave me at least 45%
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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David Beckachastaham said:
What constitutes 45 percent?
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She has to like your photos and make positive comments about them.
And it has to be more than 1.
Even a DM from her boosts her up to 25%

But you must realize that chicks on instagram are only looking for attention.
They get thousands of likes and responses from guys daily.
You would just be another notch on her validation belt.
 
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Dude just approach her or get in her DMs or text her or call her or do anything other than ask a bunch of dudes on a forum what to do. Get some experience. Shoot your damn shot and see if she is down. There’s no magic pill
 
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