"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Another 'going to X Country' thread - Korea and Hungary

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after living for about a year in Vietnam I've had enough of the place and have decided to move on. The plan right now is to work for a couple of months in Korea (Soeul, presumably) and then jet out to Budapest, Hungary for another 2 or 3 months.

Obviously the DJ culture in those places will be very different, does anyone have some advice or experiences to share?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cr1msonKing said:
Don't know **** about it, but I'm curious about your experience in Vietnam.
I've been living in Ho Chi Minh City. My experience is that while it's super-easy to get alot of dates, 95% of them are a total waste of time either because the girl doesn"t speak english or is a total prude or is a heavily makeup-ed skank trying to get money/a passport. beautiful girls though, and I've had my fair share of success. You just have to sift through alot of BS.

My problem is, I'm really starting to hate the atmosphere here. It's the same shyt every single day, anything having to do with the government is a nightmare, the air and water and streets are filthy, you can"t walk anywhere, the weather is fvckin miserable, and there's almost nothing to do on weekends except drink and nobody cares about anything except making money. Some people might not find that a problem but that kind of thing is important to me.

Great food though.
 

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My view might be a bit biased.

It should start to rain, around this time Korea (Seoul) is going to be humid in some places, really depends on where you go. You should really go sightseeing as it is in general a clean country and has a lot of history to it. There is some disparity however, you have the city but if you go ride a train for a big you'll be in the country side (like most other cities!). Could be wrong about the weather though, and was just unlucky last time I went.

The people there are generally friendly, its really homogeneous though, mostly koreans, since it's korea anyway.
They love english speakers actually, and foreigners in general, and if you learn a little korean then woo.

Korean women in general are conservative, as is the general population, but they still have a sexual side to them if you go to clubs, I think its because they have to repress it in society, and it comes out in more "liberal" situations.


My two cents. Don't have any general advice though, just a survey of korea :p
 
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Leporello said:
I've been living in Ho Chi Minh City. My experience is that while it's super-easy to get alot of dates, 95% of them are a total waste of time either because the girl doesn"t speak english or is a total prude or is a heavily makeup-ed skank trying to get money/a passport. beautiful girls though, and I've had my fair share of success. You just have to sift through alot of BS.

My problem is, I'm really starting to hate the atmosphere here. It's the same shyt every single day, anything having to do with the government is a nightmare, the air and water and streets are filthy, you can"t walk anywhere, the weather is fvckin miserable, and there's almost nothing to do on weekends except drink and nobody cares about anything except making money. Some people might not find that a problem but that kind of thing is important to me.

Great food though.
Sounds like San Jose, California.
 

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I've been on holiday to Hungary, and I have some family there.
Sex seems pretty free flowing, and the young women are mighty fine, it just goes wrong after they hit 35.
'Surveys' say the Hungarians have the best sex along with the French and Greeks.

When I was there, not many Hungarians knew English, and had a bad attitude to us when we spoke it. So I spoke the German I've learnt at school and got along fine.

I'd guess you'd game like Russian chicks. There's some threads on that, have a look for them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hughman said:
I've been on holiday to Hungary, and I have some family there.
Sex seems pretty free flowing, and the young women are mighty fine, it just goes wrong after they hit 35.
'Surveys' say the Hungarians have the best sex along with the French and Greeks.

When I was there, not many Hungarians knew English, and had a bad attitude to us when we spoke it. So I spoke the German I've learnt at school and got along fine.

I'd guess you'd game like Russian chicks. There's some threads on that, have a look for them.
I'm not too worried about finding English-speakers, thanks to Mr. Internet it's not that difficult to find the various online groups where English-speakers hang out for whatever reason.

hmm, I don't have much experience with russian chicks. I'll check it out.
 

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bump
 

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Am I allowed to bump twice? maybe only on the third date.
 

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Vietnam was awesome, but I've had enough of Vietnam when I was there for the second month. For one year is just way way too much for me.

However, I will be in Vietnam again next week, if you or anyone wants to meet up to have some fun, let me know.

Be very careful with money and valuable things over there. I got picked pocket when I was over there. ><
 

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chuchu said:
Vietnam was awesome, but I've had enough of Vietnam when I was there for the second month. For one year is just way way too much for me.

However, I will be in Vietnam again next week, if you or anyone wants to meet up to have some fun, let me know.

Be very careful with money and valuable things over there. I got picked pocket when I was over there. ><
What is it with people getting pickpocketed? i've been all around the world and never gotten robbed once. Just lucky I guess.

Vietnam is finished for me. I'd really like to know about Hungary.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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