"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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another girl at work thread..

cola

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Ok so you know how this thread goes.. met a girl at work like her, want her bla bla I've beencareful not to get in the friendzone too much and she for some reason likes to read my text messages in my phone to other girls so I have some sort of social proof with her.. do I continue to play the friend role or make a move? She's told me she's pretty muchs ingle right now so I was thinking of saying some thing like


"Hey. Can we talk? I like you and I think you like me so let's try being more than friends,," I think its perfect cuz its short sweet and right to the point.. and doesn't give her a lot of time tot hink.. I more or less don't need advice more like validation.. thanks everyone
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MisterMcGee

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troll? Read some threads, use the search function, and so forth instead of making us write the same thing we write to other people who wonder if they should say things like this.
This is a community where we touch upon things like this often, so dont act like there's no material here for you to learn off of.
 

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Moron? If you weren't going to answer the question why post? Congradulations you just wasted your time.. and furthermore made me waste mine telling you about yourself. Dismiss yourself from this thread
K thx bye
 

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I don't think its manly to tell a girl you like her. Your actions should show your intentions.. not your words.
 
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