"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Confident1

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Ok sit back for another b1tch session where someone can give me an obvious answer for an irritating question.

Ok so this girl...bladdy bladdy blah...bottom line is we hooked up at a party (neither of us drunk or altered in anyway). It wasn't anything spectacular it was a minute or so at most before her friend c0ckblocked the hell out of me. The entire time after (I saw her maybe six times in like two weeks) she is flirting with me shamelessly. Rubbing her hands through my hair, constantly calling me, begging me to go places with her, calling me all these sexual names, she even kissed me on the top of the head...which I am still not sure I get. I just played it cool. I made myself unavailable hit on some other girls a lot of other bulls*it.

I get her alone tonight in my car, no friend, which is amazing since they are joined at the hip. Already had two altoids in my mouth, I swallowed them as we pulled up. She got out of the car, I called her back.

"Hey, XXX come back here."
(She leans in the car)
"No, come closer."
(She comes closer and I put my hand on the back of her head. I leaned in and she turned her cheek to me.)
I just took a backdoor out of it and said "You know you got a little stache there right?"

I can think of two things that could have possibly been wrong.
1) I was bringing her home early because she didn't feel well.
2) I was talking to a bunch of guys the last time I saw her about how I had gotten with this other girl almost a year earlier, she got really weird following that, though she never said that was why.

I mean I guess I'll just move on, but this seems to happen a lot. Girls will give me obvious signals, so blatant that even I can recognize them. Then all of a sudden its not there.

But hey if any of you are ever down south I have some of the hottest lady-friends ever.... F*CK
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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brenbaus

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I also agree with benassi, whenever you bring up old gfs or hookups or whatever, women seem to think that you would rather be with your ex than them (I know bcuz my "friend" has told me a million times)

So the bottom line is NEVER EVER EVER EVER bring up girls from your past
 

familyguyfan

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Why didn't you just go for her any of the other times she was all over you?
 
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