"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Another facebook thread - revamping my profile

Lion

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Hi guys, now I know facebook is all good for keeping up with old friends and NOT for dating but I feel my profile needs to be updated.
Facebook is not everything but I feel it needs to represent me more, exude alittle ****y funniness but be minimalist in content. It would actually be good if there's something funny I can say that appeals more to male friends yet doesn't leave the girls thinking...ok...
Is there any resource on the web I can read to help me dream up some funny content?

What have you guys got in your "write something here." bit. e.g. one of my cousins has literally "write something here." written in the space.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have Full Monty written in mine. Most people dont know what it is..so I send them a link if im in the mood, or I tell them to google it.



This usually gets me a few laughs, and I've had numerous people open me in fb chat wondering what it was, and they think it's hilarious. I usually try to build to a more sexual point after that, if it's a girl. But anyway, I found that movie hilarious so I try to make my profile have information about me that actually is part of my nature.

EDIT: Seeing as your from the UK, like my mother you should definitely have heard of the full monty!
 

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I left my about me blank. I dont use facebook to pick up girls, everyone thats on my facebook as a friend knows me and what i am all about. Dont need to write anything
 

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Less is more.

Remember that.

Long, stupid, wordy, self-indulgent profiles will turn woman off.

Keep it simple.
 
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perfect example of what not to write:

My name is **** and I'm 25 years old.
I've got more wit, a better kiss, a hotter touch, a better ****, than any boy you'll ever meet.
I pride myself on having never lied to a girl I was interested in.
I'm quite sarcastic and random, and somewhat violent, so be prepared.
I enjoy meeting new people, just make sure you know why you're meeting me.
I'm crazy and more fun than anyone you'll ever meet.
I'm so romantic, and I'm finding it harder to find people that deserve it, who will appreciate it...and stick around for more of it.
I play games. Board, card, or video...I don't discriminate.
I'm a nerd. I embrace it.
I'm slightly OCD. This wasn't always the case.
I'm exceptionally passionate about everything I do in my life.
I'm an excellent photographer and was a photo technician for many years.
I'm persistent. If I like you, you're not going to get rid of me.
I'm the most interesting person you'll ever meet.
I'm complex, yet I want something so simple.
I'm a writer, and if you show interest in what I write; furthermore, if you tell me it's good, I will love you.
I'm confident, not ****y. I can back up everything I say.
I like anime. If you do too, we've much to talk about.
I'm an excellent kisser. This has been told to me by a few respectable sources.
I like attention.
If I don't talk to you, it's because you've bored me.
I don't get bored too easily, so you have to really try to attain that.
I'm of Czech/Welsh ancestry.
I don't speak any foreign language, but I can understand a good deal.
I like to tinker with things and see how they work.
I'm in college for Electrical Engineering.
I'm NOT a virgin.
I'm NOT a man*****.
You WISH I was.
I like sex. It's not all I'm about. Deal with it.
I like high heels and skirts on girls. A lot.
I will have my way with you.
I'm clingy, and if you're not into that, get lost.
I'm a cuddler.
I like to hold hands, too.
I have joined the many and gotten a cell phone with Verizon. Go ahead, ask me for my number.
I like to get inside a persons head. If you were to think I won't get in there...you'd be mistaken.
I don't smoke. Anything.
I don't drink very often and when I do, it's never a lot.
I'm drug free...and it's the way to be!
If I'm nice to you, buy you dinner, or deserve it, say thank you to me. It's not that hard, really. Thank you.
I give incredible back rubs.
I'm an excellent cook and if you're a sweetheart, I'll cook for you.
I am very dominant.
I write in my spare time, and have written a collection of short stories.
I am known in many circles...as Legion.
Yes, that's legitimately from the "About Me" section of someone's Facebook profile.

Now picture being an HB and reading that.

Like I said before, less is more. It's much more attractive to a woman if your Facebook page is subtle, minimal, and somewhat mysterious.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lion

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Haha! As long as that guy who has it as his "about me" thinks its cool...
 

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I agree with Smithy. HolyG, you sound pretty funny but don't take it this far as you'll come across as insecure.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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