"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Another example why girls are *****s

bud_2005

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I have this friend who is somewhat of an AFC. We both graduated from high school. He went out with this one girl for about 3 years and they just broke up after graduation. He did it, but then he started wanting her back and he was trying to get back together with her. He started callling her A LOT, like 10 times a day, trying to mend their relationship. Well she didnt want anything to do with him anymore so she stopped answering his calls. He was getting really pissed off so he texted her a message telling her to **** off and using a lot of profanity. And you know what the ***** did? She took her phone to the police, showed them the text message, and filed a restraining order against him. Now he has to leave town. And he never hit her or anything. Girls will screw guys over really bad if you feed the fire.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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italostud

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He doesn't have to leave town just because of a restraining order?
 

lebRambo

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either that, or your friend was being a complete and utter d!ck. :rolleyes:
 

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And I can give you ten examples of how women are great. Do you want to condemn all women just because this one was rotten? Grow up man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJDamage

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Originally posted by bud_2005
He started callling her A LOT, like 10 times a day, trying to mend their relationship. Well she didnt want anything to do with him anymore so she stopped answering his calls. He was getting really pissed off so he texted her a message telling her to **** off and using a lot of profanity.
And your friend acted like a big pvssy so both of them cancel each other out.

When a woman does not want to speak to you, you stop calling her,Plain and simple. You don't bother her and she won't bother you. He decided to take the low road and be a d1ck and she got fed up and decided to take a revenge on him.
 

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These guys are right. It'd not the girl who is at fault; your friend was harrassing her.

Sadly a lot of guys on here throw blame the girl's way. If they fail to see their own mistakes they'll never learn.
 

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That doesn't make sense. Sometimes I just wakeup and have the urge to maserbate even if I previously had sex the night before. Thats wrong? :confused:
 

Bradshaw

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Originally posted by bud_2005
... they just broke up after graduation. He did it....

... he was trying to get back together with her. He started callling her A LOT, like 10 times a day, trying to mend their relationship....

...He was getting really pissed off so he texted her a message telling her to **** off and using a lot of profanity....


This guy sounds like a psycho. It doesn't sound like she went to the police to screw him over, but for her own safety.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MetalFortress

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Originally posted by bud_2005
I have this friend who is somewhat of an AFC. We both graduated from high school. He went out with this one girl for about 3 years and they just broke up after graduation. He did it, but then he started wanting her back and he was trying to get back together with her. He started callling her A LOT, like 10 times a day, trying to mend their relationship. Well she didnt want anything to do with him anymore so she stopped answering his calls. He was getting really pissed off so he texted her a message telling her to **** off and using a lot of profanity. And you know what the ***** did? She took her phone to the police, showed them the text message, and filed a restraining order against him. Now he has to leave town. And he never hit her or anything. Girls will screw guys over really bad if you feed the fire.
That was HIS fault. He is absolutely insane.
 

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Obsessed your friend had become...one-itis gone wrong I presume.

Read the bible he should have...and all eggs into one basket he should not have put.
 

Bradshaw

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Originally posted by darth yoda
Obsessed your friend had become...one-itis gone wrong I presume.

Read the bible he should have...and all eggs into one basket he should not have put.

I think we should have a Star Wars only section. You know, kinda like the mature man forum, except you have to be a nerd to post there.
 

darth yoda

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Originally posted by Bradshaw
I think we should have a Star Wars only section. You know, kinda like the mature man forum, except you have to be a nerd to post there.
Stay on topic you should...try harder to offend next time.

:down:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bud_2005

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I know my friend did a lot of wrongs, but if a girl sent u a nasty txt message, you guys would actually show the police and get a restraining order. I doubt it.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by bud_2005
I know my friend did a lot of wrongs, but if a girl sent u a nasty txt message, you guys would actually show the police and get a restraining order. I doubt it.
He must have threatened her or did something really serious to have the police issue a restraining order.
 
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