I have this friend who is somewhat of an AFC. We both graduated from high school. He went out with this one girl for about 3 years and they just broke up after graduation. He did it, but then he started wanting her back and he was trying to get back together with her. He started callling her A LOT, like 10 times a day, trying to mend their relationship. Well she didnt want anything to do with him anymore so she stopped answering his calls. He was getting really pissed off so he texted her a message telling her to **** off and using a lot of profanity. And you know what the ***** did? She took her phone to the police, showed them the text message, and filed a restraining order against him. Now he has to leave town. And he never hit her or anything. Girls will screw guys over really bad if you feed the fire.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Another example why girls are *****s
- Thread starter bud_2005
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
uh..yeah your friend was a bipolar AFC.
You're obviously biased because he was your friend. Please clear your mind before posting next time for the dark side clouds all.
You're obviously biased because he was your friend. Please clear your mind before posting next time for the dark side clouds all.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
And your friend acted like a big pvssy so both of them cancel each other out.
When a woman does not want to speak to you, you stop calling her,Plain and simple. You don't bother her and she won't bother you. He decided to take the low road and be a d1ck and she got fed up and decided to take a revenge on him.
hungry_american
Don Juan
That doesn't make sense. Sometimes I just wakeup and have the urge to maserbate even if I previously had sex the night before. Thats wrong? 
darthsidious
Banned
bud2005 = stalker weirdo = he is the "friend" he is talking about.
*shoots lightning bolts at bud2005*
*shoots lightning bolts at bud2005*
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
That was HIS fault. He is absolutely insane.
darth yoda
Don Juan
Obsessed your friend had become...one-itis gone wrong I presume.
Read the bible he should have...and all eggs into one basket he should not have put.
Read the bible he should have...and all eggs into one basket he should not have put.
darth yoda
Don Juan
Stay on topic you should...try harder to offend next time.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
lmao I love this guy...I love the other dude too, but i think they're the same person.Originally posted by darth yoda
Stay on topic you should...try harder to offend next time.
:crackup:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
TillTheEndOfTime
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He must have threatened her or did something really serious to have the police issue a restraining order.