"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Another example why girls are *****s

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I have this friend who is somewhat of an AFC. We both graduated from high school. He went out with this one girl for about 3 years and they just broke up after graduation. He did it, but then he started wanting her back and he was trying to get back together with her. He started callling her A LOT, like 10 times a day, trying to mend their relationship. Well she didnt want anything to do with him anymore so she stopped answering his calls. He was getting really pissed off so he texted her a message telling her to **** off and using a lot of profanity. And you know what the ***** did? She took her phone to the police, showed them the text message, and filed a restraining order against him. Now he has to leave town. And he never hit her or anything. Girls will screw guys over really bad if you feed the fire.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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italostud

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He doesn't have to leave town just because of a restraining order?
 

lebRambo

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either that, or your friend was being a complete and utter d!ck. :rolleyes:
 

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And I can give you ten examples of how women are great. Do you want to condemn all women just because this one was rotten? Grow up man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJDamage

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Originally posted by bud_2005
He started callling her A LOT, like 10 times a day, trying to mend their relationship. Well she didnt want anything to do with him anymore so she stopped answering his calls. He was getting really pissed off so he texted her a message telling her to **** off and using a lot of profanity.
And your friend acted like a big pvssy so both of them cancel each other out.

When a woman does not want to speak to you, you stop calling her,Plain and simple. You don't bother her and she won't bother you. He decided to take the low road and be a d1ck and she got fed up and decided to take a revenge on him.
 

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These guys are right. It'd not the girl who is at fault; your friend was harrassing her.

Sadly a lot of guys on here throw blame the girl's way. If they fail to see their own mistakes they'll never learn.
 

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That doesn't make sense. Sometimes I just wakeup and have the urge to maserbate even if I previously had sex the night before. Thats wrong? :confused:
 

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Originally posted by bud_2005
... they just broke up after graduation. He did it....

... he was trying to get back together with her. He started callling her A LOT, like 10 times a day, trying to mend their relationship....

...He was getting really pissed off so he texted her a message telling her to **** off and using a lot of profanity....


This guy sounds like a psycho. It doesn't sound like she went to the police to screw him over, but for her own safety.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by bud_2005
I have this friend who is somewhat of an AFC. We both graduated from high school. He went out with this one girl for about 3 years and they just broke up after graduation. He did it, but then he started wanting her back and he was trying to get back together with her. He started callling her A LOT, like 10 times a day, trying to mend their relationship. Well she didnt want anything to do with him anymore so she stopped answering his calls. He was getting really pissed off so he texted her a message telling her to **** off and using a lot of profanity. And you know what the ***** did? She took her phone to the police, showed them the text message, and filed a restraining order against him. Now he has to leave town. And he never hit her or anything. Girls will screw guys over really bad if you feed the fire.
That was HIS fault. He is absolutely insane.
 

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Obsessed your friend had become...one-itis gone wrong I presume.

Read the bible he should have...and all eggs into one basket he should not have put.
 

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Originally posted by darth yoda
Obsessed your friend had become...one-itis gone wrong I presume.

Read the bible he should have...and all eggs into one basket he should not have put.

I think we should have a Star Wars only section. You know, kinda like the mature man forum, except you have to be a nerd to post there.
 

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Originally posted by Bradshaw
I think we should have a Star Wars only section. You know, kinda like the mature man forum, except you have to be a nerd to post there.
Stay on topic you should...try harder to offend next time.

:down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bud_2005

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I know my friend did a lot of wrongs, but if a girl sent u a nasty txt message, you guys would actually show the police and get a restraining order. I doubt it.
 

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Originally posted by bud_2005
I know my friend did a lot of wrongs, but if a girl sent u a nasty txt message, you guys would actually show the police and get a restraining order. I doubt it.
He must have threatened her or did something really serious to have the police issue a restraining order.
 
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