"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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another dude begging for advice.. haha :p

playatobe

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not quite. But...

I'm trying to mack on a chick thats a year older than me, who apparently has a BF, though i'v never seen them together. (i'v heard from a probable well informed trusted friend)

She throw's IoI at me(open body language, laughs at stupid sh!t i say, holds eye contact, smiles, etc,etc..) , even though she 'has a boyfriend'... hmm. Wondering, if some cheesy, -obviously- cheesy **** would be worth adding to the mix? such as:

-since she sits next to me in college, in every class (she chose to), maybe i'd look into leaving her quirky notes.. for example: on a sheet of paper, scratch "guess who? :) ", or, "look to you're left" (when she does, i smile and wink at her) and drop it on her desk when she runs to her locker, etc.

this would obviously be coupled with the me>"hey. was wondering what you're doing after class", her>"oh, nothing really... might go to -'boyfriends-' for supper or something <she trails off>" me>"oh yeah. well i was gonna run up to the coffee shop to grab something to drink, you should join me." type stuff...

i really want this chick, for some reason i dont quite understand... seemingly like every other needy sob on this forum. However, im not 'in love' with this HB7-HB8, it just seems... 'convenient', and i'd just like to have a GF, she's arm candy. haha whatcha think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well, how close are her and her boyfriend? cause i have a girl that has a boyfriend, but if she didn't, the things she did would be definite FMI's. But i know we're just friends.
 

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not that close, that i know of. might just be a friendship for all i know. hehehe i really have no idea. But, i guess i could always just see how far i can get, see where she takes me. Never know till i try, right?

That, and i'v never done any of this blatantly corny stuff before, so, i wanna try it. If i mess it up with this chick, plenty more out there :D
 
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