"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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another dude begging for advice.. haha :p

playatobe

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not quite. But...

I'm trying to mack on a chick thats a year older than me, who apparently has a BF, though i'v never seen them together. (i'v heard from a probable well informed trusted friend)

She throw's IoI at me(open body language, laughs at stupid sh!t i say, holds eye contact, smiles, etc,etc..) , even though she 'has a boyfriend'... hmm. Wondering, if some cheesy, -obviously- cheesy **** would be worth adding to the mix? such as:

-since she sits next to me in college, in every class (she chose to), maybe i'd look into leaving her quirky notes.. for example: on a sheet of paper, scratch "guess who? :) ", or, "look to you're left" (when she does, i smile and wink at her) and drop it on her desk when she runs to her locker, etc.

this would obviously be coupled with the me>"hey. was wondering what you're doing after class", her>"oh, nothing really... might go to -'boyfriends-' for supper or something <she trails off>" me>"oh yeah. well i was gonna run up to the coffee shop to grab something to drink, you should join me." type stuff...

i really want this chick, for some reason i dont quite understand... seemingly like every other needy sob on this forum. However, im not 'in love' with this HB7-HB8, it just seems... 'convenient', and i'd just like to have a GF, she's arm candy. haha whatcha think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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well, how close are her and her boyfriend? cause i have a girl that has a boyfriend, but if she didn't, the things she did would be definite FMI's. But i know we're just friends.
 

playatobe

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not that close, that i know of. might just be a friendship for all i know. hehehe i really have no idea. But, i guess i could always just see how far i can get, see where she takes me. Never know till i try, right?

That, and i'v never done any of this blatantly corny stuff before, so, i wanna try it. If i mess it up with this chick, plenty more out there :D
 
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