Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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another dude begging for advice.. haha :p

playatobe

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not quite. But...

I'm trying to mack on a chick thats a year older than me, who apparently has a BF, though i'v never seen them together. (i'v heard from a probable well informed trusted friend)

She throw's IoI at me(open body language, laughs at stupid sh!t i say, holds eye contact, smiles, etc,etc..) , even though she 'has a boyfriend'... hmm. Wondering, if some cheesy, -obviously- cheesy **** would be worth adding to the mix? such as:

-since she sits next to me in college, in every class (she chose to), maybe i'd look into leaving her quirky notes.. for example: on a sheet of paper, scratch "guess who? :) ", or, "look to you're left" (when she does, i smile and wink at her) and drop it on her desk when she runs to her locker, etc.

this would obviously be coupled with the me>"hey. was wondering what you're doing after class", her>"oh, nothing really... might go to -'boyfriends-' for supper or something <she trails off>" me>"oh yeah. well i was gonna run up to the coffee shop to grab something to drink, you should join me." type stuff...

i really want this chick, for some reason i dont quite understand... seemingly like every other needy sob on this forum. However, im not 'in love' with this HB7-HB8, it just seems... 'convenient', and i'd just like to have a GF, she's arm candy. haha whatcha think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crazy Asian

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well, how close are her and her boyfriend? cause i have a girl that has a boyfriend, but if she didn't, the things she did would be definite FMI's. But i know we're just friends.
 

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not that close, that i know of. might just be a friendship for all i know. hehehe i really have no idea. But, i guess i could always just see how far i can get, see where she takes me. Never know till i try, right?

That, and i'v never done any of this blatantly corny stuff before, so, i wanna try it. If i mess it up with this chick, plenty more out there :D
 
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