Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Another cringe worthy story in the news about weak males

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In a biological sense, women are more valuable to the continuation of the human race. Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap. Men have always been cannon fodder.

You're correct about the social engineering taking place, but you're mistaken if you think that women haven't always been treated like royalty. Even back in the 'good old days' of the patriarchy and nuclear family, women received special treatment. What do you think chivalry is?

It's natural for men to want to take care of women. The problem is, especially in Western civilizations, that women largely aren't worth it anymore.
Wrong. Men gathered more resources. Men built everything. Men protected everything and everyone.

Women were seen as commodities.

In primitive tribes, women were often kidnapped during war.

The first thing Christopher Columbus did upon landing at Hispaniola was kidnap women for his men.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wrong. Men gathered more resources. Men built everything. Men protected everything and everyone.

Women were seen as commodities.

In primitive tribes, women were often kidnapped during war.

The first thing Christopher Columbus did upon landing at Hispaniola was kidnap women for his men.

i agree men are more productive than women.
 
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Wrong. Men gathered more resources. Men built everything. Men protected everything and everyone.

Women were seen as commodities.

In primitive tribes, women were often kidnapped during war.

The first thing Christopher Columbus did upon landing at Hispaniola was kidnap women for his men.
You're just proving their biological value.

Life used to be brutish and short, but men were killed in wars and women were allowed to live. Sounds like preferential treatment to me.
 
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You're just proving their biological value.

Life used to be brutish and short, but men were killed in wars and women were allowed to live. Sounds like preferential treatment to me.
"Allowed to live" as sex slaves.

Sometimes. Other times, they were killed along with the men.

The victor tribe was all allowed to live, male and female.

Some tribal wars were fought for the sole purpose of capturing females.

All your proving is they have ovaries. We all knew that already.

They certainly weren't captured for their "multitasking" abilities or "emotional intelligence."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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also the greatest people in history were men. just like now, the most successful brands apple google microsoft and other are all driven by men. weird, huh
 

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SoSuave has become nothing short of a bunch of circle jerking from a bunch of weak and whinny dorks backed by a huge following of yes men
 

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strong words for someone who joined in may. meaning we achieved this progress in 4 months?
You joined in August. I’m glad to know you have a basic understanding of numbers and order of which they shall be used in
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In a biological sense, women are more valuable to the continuation of the human race. Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap. Men have always been cannon fodder.

You're correct about the social engineering taking place, but you're mistaken if you think that women haven't always been treated like royalty. Even back in the 'good old days' of the patriarchy and nuclear family, women received special treatment. What do you think chivalry is?

It's natural for men to want to take care of women. The problem is, especially in Western civilizations, that women largely aren't worth it anymore.
Okay but not when you are ruined by another man. Women ARE the weaker sex which is where chivalry comes in. They can only use one egg at a time whereas we can use many seeds at once. This woman has showed to be degenerate. We do not go after sickly creatures, we go after healthy ones. This man is a weakling or sickly himself. That’s why it is NOT biological. Most betas wouldn’t even go after a woman after that. Not biological.
 

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who gives a sh*t? I'm talking about life, and life experience.

Not what "society" is meant to be, like a male feminist.

I've read a few of your things. You are the typical sexual marketplace socialist. Want to engineer "morals", and "society" to suit yourself. Like the typical trade unionist that can't cut it in the now private sector.

Keep giving the lip.
sorry dude didnt mean to offend u
 

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The extent of your worth, summed up really.

Can't manage a serious discussion with a man any better than you manage women.

Society! Help the brother out!
because i need to use translator for certain messages (not for all, i understand most posts) and your messages are one of these. All I did, was casting a joke, no need to get upset
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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But I just don't understand what role money plays exactly. There are rich guys who get cheated on. But in tribal times, wouldn't the alpha male be the one who could get the most resources? Or is he the one who beats up and intimidates other guys?
Alpha guys in primitive societies could be regular ruler guys, but they could also be despotic leader types to controlled everything. Even recent Kings lived in paranoia that their brothers would kill them.

Kim Jong Un is an alpha in his own small bubble, but he's also paranoid he's going to be killed by his "friends."

Because of our messed up economy (fiat based, crony capitalist type) it's very easy to make a ton of $$ without having any alpha qualities. Whereas maybe a hundred or so years ago, alphaness and money making ability were much more correlated.
 

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Women were seen as commodities.
Women are more valuable on an instinctive level, not on a conscious level. Young men are expendable, even in chimps.

100 dudes and one girl = Society finished.

100 girls and one dude = Society continues.
 
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Okay but not when you are ruined by another man. Women ARE the weaker sex which is where chivalry comes in. They can only use one egg at a time whereas we can use many seeds at once. This woman has showed to be degenerate. We do not go after sickly creatures, we go after healthy ones. This man is a weakling or sickly himself. That’s why it is NOT biological. Most betas wouldn’t even go after a woman after that. Not biological.
Ok, now I see the disconnect. I was never referring to the story in the original post. I just read a post that stood out to me, began thinking in broader terms and took it in another direction.

I just now read the yahoo story and it doesn't give you sh1t for details on the husband. All it says is that they're expecting a baby...it doesn't say anything about him being cool with it.

The bigger question here is how did she fvck around on him for 10 YEARS in secret.
 

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Ok, now I see the disconnect. I was never referring to the story in the original post. I just read a post that stood out to me, began thinking in broader terms and took it in another direction.

I just now read the yahoo story and it doesn't give you sh1t for details on the husband. All it says is that they're expecting a baby...it doesn't say anything about him being cool with it.

The bigger question here is how did she fvck around on him for 10 YEARS in secret.
Oh ok just a stream of thought. I thought you were referring to the whole article lol
 
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