"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Another Country question: Costa Rica

Leporello

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I got a summer job in Costa Rica (San Jose).

I know nothing about it. I have never been there and I don't know anyone from there. I DO speak Spanish.

Anybody know anything about the DJ situation over there? My only experience in a Latin country was Argentina, where the women were practically untouchable.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My ex-girlfriend is going to be there in the summer. Don't even think about making a move on her :trouble:
 

Leporello

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Robyn923b said:
My ex-girlfriend is going to be there in the summer. Don't even think about making a move on her :trouble:
If she's your ex, she's fair game.

Naah, there's plenty of fish in el mar...
 
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