"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Another Country question: Costa Rica

Leporello

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I got a summer job in Costa Rica (San Jose).

I know nothing about it. I have never been there and I don't know anyone from there. I DO speak Spanish.

Anybody know anything about the DJ situation over there? My only experience in a Latin country was Argentina, where the women were practically untouchable.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My ex-girlfriend is going to be there in the summer. Don't even think about making a move on her :trouble:
 

Leporello

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Robyn923b said:
My ex-girlfriend is going to be there in the summer. Don't even think about making a move on her :trouble:
If she's your ex, she's fair game.

Naah, there's plenty of fish in el mar...
 
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