"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Another "car" pick up but got out for this one (Shocking results)

Cocky-Blond-Guy

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Originally posted by TxCowboy
I hear this all the time around here ... "sweetie" "hun" "sugar" "darlin" "dear" .... DO NOT be deceived by this ... its the South bud ...just a phrase that gets tossed around by chicks around here ...

Personally, I think a lot of times , when they say this crap to guys , its very misleading

Make sure she's not one of those really rich and uppedy southern belles too

Are we positive he's in the South?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Plain & Simple

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I am i am, Miami to be exact. But she is from Ny and just moved down here so things change a bit now huh:p

Anyway she didnt call me:down:

to be honest i kinda knew she wasnt, and excuse my ****yness but i knew she wasnt for the simple reason that she really thinks im too hot.

im sure shell contact me tomorrow if not i might call her if not ill text her or whatnot.
 

pimpfromdayone

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So you're saying she is afraid she might mess things up by saying the wrong thing or something? I think that is a possibility, but you know you gotta do the first couple of calls just because you're the man.
 

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple
I am i am, Miami to be exact. But she is from Ny and just moved down here so things change a bit now huh:p

Anyway she didnt call me:down:

to be honest i kinda knew she wasnt, and excuse my ****yness but i knew she wasnt for the simple reason that she really thinks im too hot.

im sure shell contact me tomorrow if not i might call her if not ill text her or whatnot.
eh, i wouldnt of told her to call you. that only seems to work on girls that are attached already (there are exceptions). you are still more or less a stranger to her. you should of just called her the next day like you had planned and tried to meet up.
 

Plain & Simple

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yeh i didnt call her today, ima call her tomorrow though, and try to set something for friday, since she is off from school on fridays and so am i.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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