"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Another "car" pick up but got out for this one (Shocking results)

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Originally posted by TxCowboy
I hear this all the time around here ... "sweetie" "hun" "sugar" "darlin" "dear" .... DO NOT be deceived by this ... its the South bud ...just a phrase that gets tossed around by chicks around here ...

Personally, I think a lot of times , when they say this crap to guys , its very misleading

Make sure she's not one of those really rich and uppedy southern belles too

Are we positive he's in the South?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I am i am, Miami to be exact. But she is from Ny and just moved down here so things change a bit now huh:p

Anyway she didnt call me:down:

to be honest i kinda knew she wasnt, and excuse my ****yness but i knew she wasnt for the simple reason that she really thinks im too hot.

im sure shell contact me tomorrow if not i might call her if not ill text her or whatnot.
 

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So you're saying she is afraid she might mess things up by saying the wrong thing or something? I think that is a possibility, but you know you gotta do the first couple of calls just because you're the man.
 

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple
I am i am, Miami to be exact. But she is from Ny and just moved down here so things change a bit now huh:p

Anyway she didnt call me:down:

to be honest i kinda knew she wasnt, and excuse my ****yness but i knew she wasnt for the simple reason that she really thinks im too hot.

im sure shell contact me tomorrow if not i might call her if not ill text her or whatnot.
eh, i wouldnt of told her to call you. that only seems to work on girls that are attached already (there are exceptions). you are still more or less a stranger to her. you should of just called her the next day like you had planned and tried to meet up.
 

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yeh i didnt call her today, ima call her tomorrow though, and try to set something for friday, since she is off from school on fridays and so am i.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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