"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So i asked this girl out, she said no, i accepted it. but we kept talking and ****, we ended up kissing and ****, then like she flirts like crazy with me. And gets jealous whenever i talk about other girls. Then she invited me over to watch a movie and **** and all flirted with me like crazy. Then said she wanted to watch movies every weekend. So later on shes like "my friend roxy said she thinks you like me", and i said your friends dumb, i asked you out awhile ago. So then she goes ya i like you but not like that. Im just like uhh right. So i thikn im just gonna blow her off this weekend, she can go without leeching my attention.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Swede54

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anyone have any real insight to wtf happend here?
 

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soo..wat r u asking?
to me it sounds like you need to read the bible!

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Swede54

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Originally posted by silkkster
soo..wat r u asking?
to me it sounds like you need to read the bible!

:: READ THE BIBLE :: :: READ THE BIBLE :::: READ THE BIBLE :: :: READ THE BIBLE :::: READ THE BIBLE :: :: READ THE BIBLE :::: READ THE BIBLE :: :: READ THE BIBLE :::: READ THE BIBLE :: :: READ THE BIBLE :::: READ THE BIBLE :: :: READ THE BIBLE :::: READ THE BIBLE :: :: READ THE BIBLE :::: READ THE BIBLE :: :: READ THE BIBLE ::
i was asking if anyone knew what she possibly could be thinking? Probably just a AW leading me on but w/e.
 

skinnydart

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i like you but not like that
She doesn't want to go out with you as in long dinner and movie, she just wants to jump right into the good stuff.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She is calling the shots and is using you because she knows she has you in the palm of her hand. You better get control of this situation and don't let her manipulate you.

Pull back a little bit and don't ask her out just say lets hang out but under your terms.

Some chicks acually get a big kick from being a c0ck tease. Until you don't fvck her, you mean nothing to her.
 

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djdamage is right, just ditch her.

sounds like she's using you for rebound of some sort or using you to fill a void, w/o involving any of her emotions.

or better yet, she's trying to bring out the afc in you... ;)
 

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indeed don't waste your time, do your thing to get her in bed, no succes? Next her.. .if you don't want to take that chance, Next her!
 

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she's just playin you.... go with the flow brother, play her too.
ja get the idea?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wana hear some funny ****? haha. I told this other dude he could hang out with her. ( he likes her too). Because i wasnt going to hang out with her. Im going out with the guys instead to drink. Because well **** her, im not her *****. She told him she thinks we are still hanging out. haha , no sir =). She thinks we are because i always used to be up for it.
 
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