"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Swede54

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So i asked this girl out, she said no, i accepted it. but we kept talking and ****, we ended up kissing and ****, then like she flirts like crazy with me. And gets jealous whenever i talk about other girls. Then she invited me over to watch a movie and **** and all flirted with me like crazy. Then said she wanted to watch movies every weekend. So later on shes like "my friend roxy said she thinks you like me", and i said your friends dumb, i asked you out awhile ago. So then she goes ya i like you but not like that. Im just like uhh right. So i thikn im just gonna blow her off this weekend, she can go without leeching my attention.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Swede54

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anyone have any real insight to wtf happend here?
 

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soo..wat r u asking?
to me it sounds like you need to read the bible!

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Swede54

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Originally posted by silkkster
soo..wat r u asking?
to me it sounds like you need to read the bible!

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i was asking if anyone knew what she possibly could be thinking? Probably just a AW leading me on but w/e.
 

skinnydart

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i like you but not like that
She doesn't want to go out with you as in long dinner and movie, she just wants to jump right into the good stuff.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJDamage

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She is calling the shots and is using you because she knows she has you in the palm of her hand. You better get control of this situation and don't let her manipulate you.

Pull back a little bit and don't ask her out just say lets hang out but under your terms.

Some chicks acually get a big kick from being a c0ck tease. Until you don't fvck her, you mean nothing to her.
 

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djdamage is right, just ditch her.

sounds like she's using you for rebound of some sort or using you to fill a void, w/o involving any of her emotions.

or better yet, she's trying to bring out the afc in you... ;)
 

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indeed don't waste your time, do your thing to get her in bed, no succes? Next her.. .if you don't want to take that chance, Next her!
 

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she's just playin you.... go with the flow brother, play her too.
ja get the idea?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wana hear some funny ****? haha. I told this other dude he could hang out with her. ( he likes her too). Because i wasnt going to hang out with her. Im going out with the guys instead to drink. Because well **** her, im not her *****. She told him she thinks we are still hanging out. haha , no sir =). She thinks we are because i always used to be up for it.
 
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