Hey guys, I've been reading the stuff on this website for about a month now and i have to say it's helped me out ALOT. I have one problem tho that kinda brings whatever confidence ive built up right back down. I havent had a girlfriend in about a year now (and since i found this website i can clearly see why) and most of my friends are starting to think im gay. i know im not gay and its really annoying the crap outta me that people are starting to think that. It's in the middle of summer right now and i havent gotten a very good chance to try some of the stuff ive learned so far out on girls. i lifeguard at my local swimming pool where alotta girls from my school go and they have started to notice me more so i am seein some results. but i still dont have a girlfriend and unless i do somthing soon my so called friends are gunna make everyone think im gay and its really annoying. any advice on how to fix this?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Annoying Problem
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